MySpace Friend says...
Hi.
I'm a freshmen, 15 years old.
I've never done anything with a boy. Never kissed one. Never dated one.
I've hugged guy friends but that's it.
I prayed to god that i wanted a real friend I could talk to that would make me happier cause sometimes i get depressed for no reason.
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I Feel Guilty..I Feel Like A Total Hypocrite
Anonymous says...
Hi,
Well I'm 18 years old and i found your blog so I just thought i'd write and ask you my questions. Anyhow
basically for the last 7 months I've been dating this guy on and off. The first three months everything was great and I really loved being with him but now I've been feeling so torn up inside over my relationship with him. I mean he's a great guy but I've had to make a lot of compromises to be with him. I've been lying to my parents about going to see him. It makes me feel so guilty every time I make up a story about where I'm going
but I just can't seem to stop
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What Does It Mean To Submit To Your Husband?
Anonymous said...I have a question about (Christian) marriage. What does it mean to submit to your husband? How do you do it?
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Is It My Place To Tell Her?
Anonymous says..
I am in need of advice. My best friend has recently become engaged. She only dated her boyfriend for two weeks after first meeting him. She accepted when he proposed. It was then that I met him for the first time when they came to visit my home. But I was not impressed.
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Stay Out Of The Love Triangle
MySpace friend writes..
Hey seeking advice again um I like this boy but he like one of my friends but they have went out before and she keeps "breaking" his heart but he keeps dating her and they've recently gone out and he dumped him for another guy *which was his friend* What do I do I'm so confused but I've never felt this way about a guy before and I really like him!
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How Do I Break This?
Anonymous writes..
I've been in prison for going on 4 years. I did most of my time pretty well. But for some reason once I got to work release I allowed myself to get involved with a female and at first all was well, but then times got really rough and she turned her back on me. We even got into a little bit of trouble. She hurt me real bad. But my porblem is that when times was good she showed me what it meant to be loved and what I got from her I never got from any man. Now I feel like I'm infatuated with her. I feel like my preference is now going to be women, I know this is a curse, how do I break out of this curse? How do I let go of this woman? She has moved on but I'm still stuck on her. Why? And do I break it?
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I Feel Like He's Never Going To Leave Her But I Can't Walk Away
MySpace Friend writes..
Ok, here is whats going on. I meet the most amazing guy, he loves me I love him. He is a good and honest clean southern gentlemen. He has a stable job and we share similar interest we started out as friends, then we started talking sorta and now I am convinced that I have found my soulmate. There is only one problem.
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Emotional Rollercoaster
MySpace friend sends update to You Are Not Alone
My day was an emotional rollercoaster. I Woke Up. Felt Perfect. Felt Happy and Good Enough I Prayed I Asked For the Holy Spirt To Be with me. I Went To School And It Seemed Like God Didn’t care, Didn’t care on how I felt ….girls were mean,
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Hi...Im having a little trouble with giving my bestfriend advice and the comfort she needs...Her boyfriend taking her throught alot of changes and trials...1) she's pregnant and one top of that she found out she has Chlamydia, so can u help with some aspiring words of advice. Thank YOU
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I Thought Christians Weren't Supposed To Judge People
Shes my bff and I love her I dont wanna lose her but I dont like how shes judgin me. I cant talk to her cuz she wont listen. she already made up her mind bout me so what I say dont matter.what should I do? I thought Christians werent supposed to judge people?
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So I went to church last night, and I haven't been going for a while. I prayed and prayed, begged him for forgivness, and if he would come into my heart... last night I didnt feel it he still wasnt there in my heart.. and I want it more then anything at this moment of time. I need it. I don't know what to do anymore, please tell me something? ♥
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I Tried Talking To Her But She Says Nothing Is Wrong
Anonymous says..
Hey ladies, I need some advice. About 3-4 months ago I had a falling out w/ a close friend. She completely ignores me and I don't know why we aren't friends anymore. I tried talking to her but she said nothing was wrong. So I left her alone but it hurted so bad.
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He Gives Hints That He Would Break Up With His Girlfriend For Me
Anonymous says..
Please help...I've been liking this guy for a while now but he has a girlfriend and plus he's not a christian. A lot of my friends say that he likes me and should talk to him about it. Plus he gives hints that he would break up with his girlfriend for me. I really like him but should I settle for someone who's not a christian or wait for the right christian guy to come around?
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He Said He's Not Sure About Our Relationship Any More
Anonymous says..
I have been dating the loveliest Christian guy for the past 6 months. We are both in our 20's and have always agreed that dating is a prequel to marriage.
Last week he told me that he was no longer sure he was ready to be the man I need. I know we love each other and I've told him to take his time in praying about where our relationship should go (if anywhere).
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Said I Should Lost Weight..I've Been Crying Over This Situation
we pray, read the bible, fast, and worship 2gether. weve been praying to see if God wants us 2 get married since we believe we are ready and are old enough to. Bt theres one thing that he has recently told me that has put a bit of doubt in me. He told me that i should lose some weight. Though i am not obese and i dont have self-esteem issues. i take care of myself and present myself well. he says he had a picture of how his wife would look and that he always saw her "fit". im a curvy girl and i accept that. he says its for health issues (which i understand) but i also feel that he should love me for me...
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God's Will For This Long Distance Relationship
So how do you differentiate between judging/discerning/knowing what's right for you? We do love each other, and he has been amazing in how he responded to my not-so-straightforward past. But I am beginning to wonder at what point it would be wise to start thinking about the future, or how long it is okay to 'see how it goes' - not in a casual way, but in a genuine, 'I don't yet know what the future holds' way. And what if I'm not sure about the future, but he thinks he is sure?
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Girls Just Want to Have Fun
Anonymous replies to posting 'What Does The Bible Say About Partying & Clubbing?'
I get your point but at the same time i dont understand what is wrong with hanging
out with your girls friends and dancing with eachother (nothing sexual) but its not like we par-take in this whole drinking and getting drunk dancing dirty stuff...
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"Sex Is About Waiting Until You & Your Partner Are Ready!"
Anonymous said...
Why is purity so important? I don't find anything wrong with having sex before marriage. Sex is about waiting until YOU and YOUR PARTNER are ready!
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My Friend Might Be Pregnant How Do I Help Her?
I know what she and her boyfriend is doing has gone on multiple times, and I'm afraid that she'll wind up pregnant. What's worse is my fear that she may already be, and it scares me. I know that the guy will leave her if she gets pregnant, and her parents wouldn't be very supportive if she did, and she would most likely get an abortion if she did get pregnant.
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When I Had A Boyfriend My Relationship With God Became Distant
Hi, I'm 14 years old, and I used to have a boyfriend. We had been going out for 5 months going on 6. I love the Lord very much. And during the time I was going out with him i could feel God tugging at my heart. I noticed that when i had a boyfriend my relationship with God had become more and more distant.
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He Dating My Big Sister's BFF
About two months after he told me he wanted to be single e approached me after a church prayer metting to tell me he was now going out with my big sisters best friend!! i walked off with tears rolling down my cheeks, this was three months ago and i have to see him at least once or twice a week and my heart breaks every time.
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My Friends Say This Makes My Image Look Bad
I've heard from my friends that this is making my image look really bad. it would not be such a big problem if he didn't have a bad reputation for being a "womanizer". i knew this about him before we even became good friends and now i feel like there has been a wool thrown over my eyes. he has said he's changed but sometimes the truth can be rusted.
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I Have A Lot of Peer Pressure
Anonymous said...
Hi, what do I do when I feel like I have alot of peer pressure?????
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Why Is It So Hard To Do The Right Thing?
Anonymous said...
Why is it so hard to do the right thing, when you know what you doing is wrong. This is the second time that I'm asking for advice. And I know what I have to do but every time I make my mind up to end this friendship w/ this guy I met; I can't. I've moved to a new city and hardly know anyone. I've made some friends w/ ppl that I go to school w/ but don't really hang out w/ them outside school. I met this guy about a month back, I know he's interested in me but I'm not really interested in making him my man- just someone to hang out w/
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Stop Discriminating & Hating. People Are Born Gay
Anonymous says in response to the posting ‘I Don’t Think I Am Wrong’
This answer is absolutely ridiculous. People are born gay. They don't choose to be gay. Its scientifically proven. Look it up. Therefore, it is not a sin. Stop discriminating and hating. Start accepting and loving.
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He No Longer Wants To Be There For the Birth Of His Son
T. Marshall said...
The father of my child is no longer in the picture. Although he was the one who told me he was ready to have children and wanted to have them with me, I found out the hard way that that wasn't true. I've been having complications in my pregnancy and was finally put on bed rest until I go into labor. Even though my son's father isn't in the picture, I still have contact with him. When I let him know about the complications and the bed rest he told me that it was best for him if I didn't contact him until the baby is here on earth. Meaning, to me, that he no longer wanted to be there for the birth of his son.
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A Guy Is In Love With Me But I Don't Feel the Same
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I Don't Know What To Do Or How To Do It
Anonymous said...
Ok i am right now facing pretty tough dicisions i am 18 years old and next year i will be graduating but i dont know what to do or how to do it God has given me a great talent with writing poetry and short stories but the problem is how do i incorportate that into college i really want to be an published author but i dont know where to begin
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He's Having A Hard Time Sticking With One Girl
Anonymous' Prayer Request...
Please pray for my "friend" Steven. He's having a hard time sticking with one girl and I know I still love him, even his sister says she can't see him happier or becoming a better Christian with anyone else but me. So please pray that he will learn what he's doing to these girls.
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He Wants to Overcome These Thoughts of Lust
Just want 2 help out said...
I have a friend and he is at the moment struggling with something...
He is a christian who does pray, stays away from wordly pleasures and is on the right track. But he shared with me that he has a struggle, now that hes in a new school (where there are so many pretty girls around) he has a problem where he notices that he looks at them in a wrong way
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He’s Going Thru A Lot… Please Pray for Him
Prayer Request from rossy...
i had a boyfriend that goin to alot of problem on his life so im i he goin to live canada live me along in west palm i hope everything go well so he could come back to my arm .we bein goin out 1yrs an month .i hope god help him will he gone .thanks
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I Feel So Lost and Confused
Anonymous said...
I need advice on a subject that everybody keeps telling me to just simple move on from its better said then done i was in a relatinship with this guy and i really loved him i mean i really did to the point where my relationship with god faded everyday.He later broke up with me because he said that we had nothing in common long story short the day that me and him broke up he was already trying to get with this girl...
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I Found Out He's Not A Virgin
My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 or 5 months. We love each other very very much and want to get to know everything about each other. We both grew up in Christian homes and still go to church. I have grown in my faith a lot; I'm a youth leader for grade 8 girls at my youth group and he has volunteered with children's ministry and is taking over the whole thing this fall! We haven't started doing devotions together but have agreed that we ought to start doing them together.
I'm very much in love with him, that is why I was concerned with how far he has gone in previous relationships. I found out VERY recently, like 2 days ago!! that he is not a virgin.
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My 16-yr-old is Not Pure Anymore
Anonymous said...
How to handle finding out your 16 yr daughter is partly not pure anymore. I haven't said anything to her yet. But My first reactin is to ground her and make her read verses all day. I'm so hurt by this
I'm having a hard time typin.
Please Help.
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Sometimes I Still Get A Bit Jealous
HI I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE :)
I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND HE IS A MAN OF GOD AND HELPS ME OUT ALOT. BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM, I HAVE A TENDENCY TO GET JEALOUS ALOT OF TIMES. I KNOW THAT I CAN TRUST HIM BECAUSE HE HAS PROVEN THAT TO ME AND I KNOW THAT HE TRULY CARES ABOUT ME AND LOVES ME. BUT THERES A GIRL AT CHURCH THAT LIKES HIM AND SHE IS HIS EX
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How Can I Guard My Heart and Stay Immersed in Christ?
Hello! I need some advice. I am 17 years old, and I am dating a wonderful 17-year-old Christian boy. We met a couple of months ago and we instantly clicked. It's like we've always been friends.
… I could and would "fall in love" with this guy. I could see us spending our lives together. But I also want to guard my heart
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I Let Vanity Get To My Head
Hi...I just really need to ask something and in a way blow off some steam!I know this guy from my church and hes a really close friend of mines. But i have a problem. It all started when i recently began to dress more "sexy" and guys began to give me much more notice. Now i believe women should be modest in there appearance, (of course that doesnt mean we should be "frumpie") but there is a limit, and i believe i passed it with my much more tighter and revealing clothes.we go to school together and he noticed that guys started checking me out and flirting with me
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The Truth Has Definitely Not Set Us Free
Update from the posting Letting Her Down Easy on January 31st, 2009
Anonymous says..
So I am the girl who had the problem about the singing group (not choir)with the girl that couldn't sing well at all. I did just as you suggested. We prayed hard, and because we couldn't get together with the girl, we called her and said pretty much "We love you, but we will honestly tell you that you can not sing on tune." We even told her we would be willing to let her sing with us as long as she got some singing instruction first...even though we know there is no way to teach someone to sing when they are that bad. She promptly hung up.
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Too Much Emotional Drama
Its been a while since i asked for advice ... but i am only a teenager.. i cant help it ... i have a problem that every teenager deals with and its hard to rid of.. but i am trying and i dont know where ...or how to start..so i need help... I used to be so centered around God about 3 years ago ... i havent let go... but i have fallen back some steps and its hard to catch up ... but my problem is ... that i bring- cause alot of drama between myself and world... not physically emotionally its taking its toll on me
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I Don’t Know How To Sort It All Out
Being an only child can do strange things to you, believe me, I know. It sometimes makes you think you're the princess the world revolves around, and other times it leaves you feeling completely alone in the world. When I was young, I prayed for a sibling, and when I was 10, I got the chance I'd always wanted. My mom was pregnant! When my brother was born, I was ecstatic. But only a few hours after he was born the doctors noticed something was wrong. He was born with a hole in his tiny heart. He died two short weeks later, and my life has never been the same.
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I Like A Guy Who Is Already In A Relationship
I recently have come to the realization that I like a guy who already is in a relationship. I hate being in this situation and would never dream of trying to get in between him and his girlfriend, however I am really struggling because the more I am around him, the more I like him. He is just one of the sweetest boys I have ever met. Its hard because we go to the same college, while his girlfriend (of 2 1/2 years) goes to another college and he commutes most weekends to see her.
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He Is Not the Spiritual Leader I Need. Should I End It?
I don't know what to do anymore...I am 21 and i can remember at church camp, a counselor telling the girls to write down ten qualities we wanted in a husband and to stick to them. For almost five years I dated a guy who had all of those qualities and more. Romantic, kind, and he was a spirtual leader in our relationship and he served in our church. We prayed together, did devotions together and he treated me really well but six months after we graduated high school he called and broke things off. I was devistated. I loved him very much but within a year he was married.
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Consumed by Fear
HI I AM 18 YEARS OLD AND I HAVE A PROBLEM. I LOVE LIFE BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH FEAR. I AM 18 YEARS OLD AND I STILL DONT HAVE MY DRIVERS PERMIT OR A LICENCE. WHY? BECAUSE ITS FEAR. EVERY SINCE I WAS YOUNG I HAVE HAD THIS FEAR. ITS GOTTEN SO BAD THAT I CAN'T EVEN GO TO THE STORE WITH OUT HAVING MY CELL PHONE TO MY EAR AS A DISTRACTION. I HAVE TO TALK TO SOMEONE TO NOT FOCUS ON THE FEAR.
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What If School Doesn’t Work Out?
Continued from Should I Forgive Others That Treat Me Wrong?
hello! :)I was thinking about my future plans like i going to school to become a RN but someone i don't know, really I just met today at school, she was nice and things like that, so she ask me what are your plans after college, i told her and then she ask me, what if don't work out that way, do I have a plan-b and I say no b/c I focused on school and maintain a high GPA, not really think about if it not going to work out like it should b/c i know that going to do well in school.my question :What if it don't work out, God have a plan for me or he already has, im not see it?
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Is It Alright to Tell My Testimony No Matter What It Is?
HELLOOO..I HAVE JUST ONE QUESTION TO ASK...IS IT ALRIGHT FOR ME TO TELL MY TESTIMONY NO MATTER WHAT IT IS?...YEESS OR NOOO AND WHY
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Should I Forgive Others That Treat Me Wrong?
Hello, it's me again. I have a question for u to ask so here i go. Lets say that I have a family member that I know most of my life and treats me bad, like not physical but emotional. I feel like I am not good enough. Even he says that I am not college material or I am not going to make it in school. I am enrolled as a full-time student to be become a RN so I took some honor classes while I was in high school the last four yrs. I was second in my class, involved in school events, never been in trouble in school and always called myself a bookworm because I study mostly everyday if i can, so "What kind of person treat me this way?"
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He Has to Choose to Open the Door
i have a major problem i have been praying for my ex boyfriends salvation god put it on my heart to pray to him that by the end of january that he would call my ex into a personal devoted relationship with God for this whole month i have been fasting and praying for him and other family members i now things are surpose to go bad before they get good i just dont knoW please get back to me on this as soon as you read this please i need advice
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I Pray Every Night for This Man to Disappear
I dont know what to do anymore. My mother divorced my dad during my early teen years and since then she has been dating this guy that doesnt respect her at all and the worse part is that he doesnt respect me. I pray everynight for this man to disappear from her life and everytime I see his face I just want to blow up. I've had conversations with my mother about him but she told me that she doesnt care about how I feel and that she is not going to leave him...
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Letting Her Down Easy
I have an urgent question. My three friends and I decided to sing in church, something we have been hoping to do for a long time. Our youth leader gave us a week to practice a song. We realized we were pretty good except for one thing, the girl who is most enthusiastic and excited about it is also tone-deaf-she can't not sing at all and has never had any singing experience...
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Should They Be Friends for the Sake of the Child?
Anonymous said...
I need advice... I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes I feel like I can't handle the situation I'm in. My boyfriend has a son with another girl. Although we have been together for three years it still gets to me sometimes. I love his son and he cares a lot for me also but I don’t get along with his ex. I guess because she has already made up her mind that she doesn't like me and doesn't want anything to do with me it makes it uncomfortable my boyfriend around her. I get along with her whole immediate family but she is very manipulative and doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings but her own.
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He Had A Fling & She Got Pregnant Too
Anonymous said...
Ok so..here goes...My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. Not being obedient, we had a daughter, now shes 7 mos. However, now we broke up for about one month, and he had a fling with another woman and she got pregnant as well.
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A Book That Gives Advice on Raising Children
I need some help. I'm 22 years old and just returned from working abroad. I was in a relationship with a man while I was away, and got myself pregnant. When I told him this, he didn't want any part of the whole thing. My parents are being very understanding, and even trying to give me books on parenting. The ones on single parenting they have found for me are all referring to divorce, death,or other ways the parents separated but are both in the child's life. I'm trying to find a book, that is not for teenagers, that will give advice on raising a child on your own when the father is never going to be there for the child.
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I Believe Sex Before Marriage is Fine
Matthew 19:4-6 (Contemporary English Version)4Jesus answered, "Don't you know that in the beginning the Creator made a man and a woman? 5That's why a man leaves his father and mother and gets married. He becomes like one person with his wife. 6Then they are no longer two people, but one. And no one should separate a couple that God has joined together."I just would like to know how that is represented as ONLY married people have to be virgins? You think the writers of God would come on out and say it. I think when it says "He becomes like one person with his wife" It means they unite in marriage and they are now one.I believe sex is ok as long as it IS the person that you're going to be with for the rest of your life.
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I've Been Wondering for A Little While Now
WARNING THIS POSTING IS GRAPHIC IN NATURE..
Anonymous said...
I've been wondering for a little while now... Is anal sex the same as regular(vaginal) sex, in the sense that one loses their virginity? If I were to have anal sex, would I no longer be a virgin? Or is anal sex pretty much the same thing?.
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If He Doesn't Get His Life Right, I Can't Be With Him
Anonymous said...I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. He has had it pretty hard growing up; he's been on his own since he was 15. We are now in our mid 20's and I'm ready to get my career going. I haven't been to school in a while but I'm ready to get serious now. I see myself marrying my boyfriend the only problem is.. he is in major debt (that he pays no attention to) and he doesn't have a good paying job.
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Forgive Him & Let It Go
denay said...
Hi this is my first time ever being on this site and I need advice bad i mean really bad I have been in a relationship with God EVERY since I was 12 and I am now 18.Well i have just gotten out of this relationship with my ex boyfriend he broke up with me we were going out for almost two years he was my first love.he broke up with me for another girl and this girl is very how can i say this freaky he is a virgin and now he goes with her.
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The Battle Is In My Mind
A young friend says..
I've like this guy for soooo long and I just can't seem to get over him no matter what. I have never had a boyfriend so I'm kind of scared. And there's not a lot of differences with us besides age and grade, I'm 14 and he's 17.
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My Ex Never Got Rid of the Indecent Pictures & Video of Me
Anonymous Wrote: Sister, I need your help and prayers. I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and in that year I also became a Christian. As a new believer, I did not listen to God as much as I should have. As a result, I ended up emailing my ex bf undesirable pictures and a video of me.
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I’m Catholic & He’s Baptist… We Can’t Agree!
Question… i have been dating this guy and we have been talking about getting married and how we are going to raise our kids if and when we decide to have them...well i am catholic and believe strongly in my faith my boyfriend is baptist and hes not fond of the catholic faith at all...
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He Believes He is His Own God & Supports Satanism
Anonymous Writes... please help me sister. I have this friend who also happens to be an ex-boyfriend of mine. We didnt talk for ages and only started talking again this year? (broke up last year) He is VERY opinionated and believes that he is his own God and supports satanism. Being christian I wanted to help him and i've been trying to tell him about God. However he brings up hard questions like about how the kids in Africa are suffering and keeps saying why doesn't God save them. I try to answer but I'm not too sure myself...
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A Prayer for A Friend
MySpace Friend's Comment on 7th Grade Boy Problems & Pregnant at 12:
... Most of the guys and girls at my school are exposed to a lot of drug uses @ there own house.
Well this is the last week of school until winter break and we haven't been to school AT all this week but we went a half a day on Monday and haven't been since and doubt if we will have school this week at all but to get to the point these guys across from my lunch table but we have booths they had brought marker(s) to lunch and were getting high off this. It was kind of depressing because some of the guys are my friends and it was sad.
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I Have A Horrible Addiction to Masturbation and Pornography
Anonymous said...
… I am a young female and i have a horrible addiction to pornography & masturbation and no matter how much i pray or try to stay away from this temptation i continue to fall. It's horrible and i know that it hurts the Lord when i do it and its also having bad affects on my self-esteem & self-worth. It gives me feelings of worthlessness, guilt, & shame. And it's also affecting my relationship with a good friend of mine…
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I Want To Make Sure This Love Doesn’t Turn To Lust
Anonymous said...
Hi...I'm 20 years old and I'm in love with someone. We have been friends for a while and we both are FULLY devoted to God. But there's a problem...we have been through so much in our pasts and I know he just might be afraid of getting into a relationship because he wants to serve the Lord with no distractions (which I also agree with)especially since we have a ministry to look after. I've prayed to God and He tells me to wait...I just wanted to know what are some things I can do to ensure I stay patient and to make sure this love doesn't turn into lust.Thank you so much!!!
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He Likes to Make Me Angry Because He Finds It Attractive
Drained Wrote: i love my boyfriend so much but we argue everyday over little unimportant things. i also feel verbally and emotionally abused by him. he says he likes to make me angry because he finds it attractive when im stirred up. it's taking a toll on me and draining me out. i love him a lot and i don't want to leave him.what do i do?
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A Healing Prayer
Our Sister in Christ Writes...
HEY GIRLS
I JUST NEED PRAYER FOR ME
I BEEN SICK SINCE LAST WEDNESDAY AND I AM NOT GETTING ANY BETTER SO PLEASE PRAY FOR ME
THANKS GIRLS
GOD BLESS
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The Worry Is Back
MySpace Friend Writes:
The worrying is back, i took a final yesterday and did not do good on it. There is still another grade my teacher has to post which will determine if i will have a good grade in the class. I still have other finals to take but I'm starting to get discouraged. I have to get good grades to keep my gpa up so that I will be able to transfer to the new school. I'm trying hard not to let it bother me and pray about it but it keeps popping up in my mind.
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I'm Pregnant and He Left Me
Emailer: Wow I was really touched when I read your story im a single mother myself my boyfriend recently left me an im pregnant with our second child I know GOD is the only one that can help me through this trial but its soo hard to see that theres hope for me to make it through alone. My kids mean everything to me I know GOD has a better plan for us but its soo hard to see that when soo much is bringing me down.
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I Have A MAJOR Crush
… i am 19 year old who has a major CRUSH on robert pattinson the guy who plays edward in the movie i kno its not that good to like someone that much that you have never met but u only hear things about only my phsyical/ mental set has a tiny infatiuation with him and i know i will prolly never meet him it s just i really like him i kno its not normal ...what should i do!!!!
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I Just Want to Love My Family
A Friend Wrote… So i am twenty years old and married for four months. We are pregnant with our first child. But since we have been married we have not been able to live alone. If its not my family its his and i have to big of a heart to send anyone away. My cousin has a baby and is only sixteen her mom is in jail and she has been in and out of foster care her whole life. My husbands sister got kicked out of her house and also has a baby and has no where to go. I live off of a small income and my husband has been having trouble finding work. If i do right by my new familys needs and clear everyone out am i being selfish. I realy dnt know wat to do but realy need to provide a good home for my baby. Please pray for me and give me some guidence on wat to do. Sencerly mommy and baby on the way
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We Broke Up Again, My Heart Is Broken
Anonymous comments: … Yesterday he split up with me because we had different desires for life, I wanted to travel, and he felt called to our country which made things awkward. I don't know how to get over him as everything felt so right before. He has messed with my emotions so much and everyone tells me I can do better and to stay clear of him.
I just want to be with him again, I couldn't get him out of my head for about a year last time, and now I can see it being worse. I want God to deal with him but I want to move on, I find it so hard.
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My Mind Is Playin Tricks On Me
Anonymous writes: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is so amazing, a Christian, our relationship is wonderful. We rarely fight and we respect each other and share in our love of the Lord. We planned to get married after college.
However, I've been struggling recently. Three nights in a row I've had the same dream about my ex-boyfriend, and I wake up feeling like I'm in love with him. As the day goes on I realize it was just what I was feeling in my dream, but it's made me question my relationship with my current boyfriend. I don't feel special to him anymore, and often I feel like I've been given the backseat to his new friends here at college. I don't know if my feelings and dreams are the devil playing with my head or God trying to tell me it's time to end my current relationship. I've been praying over this, but I still feel depressed and confused. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. God bless.
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I Like Him But He Says He Loves Me
A Friend Wrote: hi. im just ritin to u kuz u know i trst u not to say nutthin therez dis boy dat i like alot i met him in skool last year but like he always tell me he lovez me but i dnt feel that way wi him i dnt love him but i like him
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Getting Accepted Into the New University
Myspace Friend writes..
Hello,I was wondering could you all give me some advice or guidance. I am a college student and sometimes all the work can get overwhelming. It's like I have a big burdon on my shoulders. I have applied to another university to be closer to my family and spend less money on transportation. The university that I applied to is hard to get in. Could you all tell me scriptures to read to keep me motivated during school and confidence of getting accepted into the new university. I want to be accepted into the school so bad but sometimes I have my doubts, but I always say if I pray about it I shouldnt be worried about just leave it in his hands.
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I Want Her To Be Saved & Not Left Behind
Jesus Girl says... Hey girls! How are u? Anyway I have to ask u something. I have this friend, she is not a Christian and she drinks and smokes and I have been trying to invite her to church and activites from my youth group but everytime I ask her she never wants to come. She always hangs out with her other friends but not me. I am praying for her and her salvation and I know I can't change people only Jesus can but I do want her to know Jesus Christ. Anyways what do I do to show her who Jesus Christ is because I want to bring her to Christ and I want her to be saved and not left behind when Jesus comes back. Please tell me what to do. Thanks girls..GOD BLESS U!
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My Dad Threatened Violence Against My Boyfriend
Anonymous writes… ok heres my question my boyfriend when he was 17 had a relationship with a girl who was 13 he got in trouble for it. but came out of that a strong Christian and a better person. i am very much in love with him i plan to marry him. the problem is my father (im 20 years old by the way)he is a reserve cop and because of my boyfriend's past has threatened violence against him if he enters the house. my father is not a Christian. i feel that god has led me to my boyfriend and that he is the one i was meant for. he strengthens me and has helped me in times when i have doubted my own faith.
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I Decided to Stay Pure... She Offered Him Sex
Anonymous commented:
Hi....I need some really good advices...I've been going out with my bf for 5 months...everything was doing good until when I found flirtatious messages on his phone... I asked what was it about? After lying so much to me, it admitted that he met an old friend of his and it happened that they kissed and he said that was the only thing that happened. I beleived him and I told him that next time he does something like this ..I'm gonna break up with him...yesterday I found out that he had sex with the same girl that he kissed 6 weeks ago...I asked him why did he do that ?
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My Ex Left Me With 2 Kids
MySpace Friend Writes... I need ur advise i receantly got out of a 5yr relationship i have 2 kids with this guy. I have nothing i dont want 2 live with my dad ! But i have no were 2 go. And my ex boyfriend broke up with me a week ago and i cant get over him wat should i do? Plz reply
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I Don't Know How To Let Him Down. HELP!
brittany smith said...
I dated a guy for 4 monthes and suddenly we broke up. after we broke i was more respectful towards other people and towards myself. He recently asked to get back together but i dont think its the right time for that. he says he's in love with me and needs me. I just dont know how to let him down nicely. HELP!!!
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My God Won't Do Such A Thing
Anonymous Writes: I love your website and God bless you women for all that you do. I was taken back a little by the homosexuality questions. God does not make mistakes, therefore if we are created in the image of Him and if one chooses to like one of the same sex, how can He turn his back on them? The all-loving God I know won't do such a thing, in my opinion. That's what makes me question certain things to like if someone lived a PERFECT life doing good and so forth and unfortunately was born in another region where God was known by a different name or was not even taught therefore the person never knew Him but since they never acknowledged Him, they are going to be sent to Hell? That does not make sense to me. Can you clarify these questions I have? Thanks!
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I'm Gonna Give Her a Piece of My Mind
Anonymous’ Situation: long, long story short. I've been married for over ten years now, together we have four children a one son from his ex-girl. my step-son his 12 1/2 yrs old. for years there have been many situations where his ex has tried to make life with me & my husband hell, But the most damaging is what she has done to her own son. She tells her son lies about me his father and his half brothers and sisters, so when ever he comes over he would give problems. I hold back a lot of feelings inside and try my very best to be loving towards him but its so hard at times. I have a lot on my plate (we all do) and my husband is just as drained I am. Most time he pretends that everything is fine, but when ever it comes down to the weekend you could see the fustration in his spirit. when will it ever end.
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Can I Remarry After Divorcing My Abusive Husband?
Anonymous said…I am married, and have been for almost 8 years now, but we have been seperated for over a year. I left him because he was verbally abusive to me and our girls (3 daughters), and he ocasionally hit me when I didnt see things his way. He has a bad marajuana habbit, and even at one point tried to sell me to some guys for money. He also conviced me to do sexuzl things with other men while we were married, and would yell at me and hit me if I refused. Then when I did, he would say he hated me because I cheated on him. …. I know what the Bible says about marriage and divorce, so I wanted to honor that but I couldnt shake the feeling that this wasnt God's best for me
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They're Trying To Break Us Up
A Friend Asked: ok so my boyfriend a week before he met me was gonna ask this gurl out but she said she was 2 busy and then he met me.
what im trying 2 say is my best friend is trying 2 break us up.
and that gurl that almost went with him is trying 2 steal him from me so what do i do?
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Pressure of Being A Good Christian
Anonymous said...
God Bless you Sisters, I am 23 and I need help. I have four older sisters and am in a new relationship with a good christian guy. My sisters are very controlling and since I am the young one they treat me with absolute no respect. We are all christians but lately I feel like the pressure of being a good christain girlfriend and being respectful of my sisters is just too much.
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Pt4 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous Responds: you remember my problem with the boyfriend who cheated with the two babies my parents didnt like him rember me asking you for advice well he crys to me everynight on the phone i feel so bad for him its hard watching someone try hard knowing what you know that no matter how bad i feel my parents will never approve of him.....he said that he has been praying more i dunno i feel like super bad but he cheated but yeah i dunno what to do i really really dont i know i still have love for him but its so omgosh i need help badly
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Pt3 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous RespondsWell he says he made a big mistake. My family don't want me taking him back. If I do I get kicked out of my home. I feel bad b.c what if he is sincerely sorry?
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Pt2 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous responds.. Well I didn't get to read this until me and him broke up guess God answered me ...I am very hurt and betrayed I found out he had sex 2x and made out with his ex with kids and cheated on me. I feel very hurt by this. Pray for me and God bless.
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I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous Asked... hey i know what your going thro i need advice simlar to that i have a boyfriend we been dating for 3 months he has 2 kids never married 23 i am only 19 so is his baby mama the babies are 2 and 1 boy and girl ..lately seems as tho he feels uncomfortable around both of us so she often trys to keep me and her apart ...
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How Do I Tell Him That I Cheated?
Anonymous Asks: Should I confess to my boyfriend what I did and hope he forgives me? Or is it better to just move forward. I know that I cheated out of stupidity. I was trying to live my life without God and was out partying and drinking. It's a life I no longer desire and something I want to forget.
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Pt2 Cont. from Baby Daddy Drama
MySpacer Responds:Does that mean I need to see him, or let him see the baby and I? I mean he hasn't done anything for either of us, and I don't want him to see our son...he doesn't even try. I guess what i'm trying to get at is can i forgive him and move on without letting him see the baby he does nothing for?
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Baby Daddy Drama
MySpace Friend Writes He didn’t even spend a single night with me in the hospital. He told me he needed to get some rest, but instead he left the hospital and spent the night with the other girl. Why is he trying to come back to me? I wanted him for soooo long, but it wasn't good enuff. Now that I dont want him, he wants me!!! I need some help. I'm so confused! Please help me!
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My Period is Almost 3 Weeks Late
Anonymous said...
My period is almost 3 weeks late. I have taken about 5 at home pregnacy test, but they have all came out negative. Could I still be pregnant? I havent taken a pregnacy test in about 5 days. Should I take another one? I have talked to my boyfriend about this and he is ok with the fact that I may be pregnant. We just both want to know if I am or not!! But I don't have the insurance or the money to go to the doctor. What should we do?
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How Do I Tell Them To Back Down?
Taylor Hale wrote... Hi. I'm almost 15, and there's this guy that I really like, and he's my best friend, but I also know that he likes me too. I don't have a problem with us not going out, but our friends do. It just gets kind of annoying. How do I tell them to back down?
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He Verbally Abuses Me
Question Asked: here is a question...wat if u r in a relationship and u verbelly abuse almost every time...and he cheat...and everytime u break withh him he give u the sweet word u take him bak...everytime...so wat is that..
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My Mom Won't Talk About Dating
Anonymous Question Posted: Im 13 yrs old and my mom won't even tell me about anything like dating. She also wont let me walk around a store with my friends by ourselves! I want to go out with this boy at school and i even know where he lives but if i even mention i know where he lives my mom will kill me! then she'll give like an hr long speech on why i cant date or have guy friends untill im like 20...im so pissed!!!
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Baby Mama Drama
Anonymous: I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both Christians and recently made the decision to be obedient to God and to keep in His word daily. I love the fact that we are growing together and encouraging each other when times get tough.
My boyfriend has a three year old son that we pick-up on the weekends and I love him to death. When it’s us three we have a great time together. The only thing is I feel that my boyfriend is trying to keep me away from his son’s family. He doesn’t like to tell me when he talks to his son’s mother and seems to make calls over there secretly to keep me from finding out.
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My Husband Looks Like He's Pregnant
Anonymous Asked... How do I tell my husband that he needs to work out? He looks like he has been pregnant with twins for 2 years now? I've tried to tell him..but He thinks he's hot!!
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My Friends Want to Commit Suicide. HELP!
A Worried Friend Wrote: OK HERE IT GOES... YESTERDAY I WAS TALKING TO ONE OF MY FRIEDNS WHO IS A GUY AND HE IS 20... HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS THINKING ABOUT SUICIDE THEN LATER THAT NIGHT I WAS TALKING TO MY EX WHO IS MY AGE & HE SAID THAT HE WAS CLOSE TO COMMITTING SUICDE THIS WEEKEND BUT HIS COUSIN STOPPED HIM BUT HE WAS STILL THINKING ABOUT IT... I BEGGED BOTH OF THEM NOT TO BUT THEY BOTH SEEMED PRETTY SET ON DOING IT....
WHAT DO I DO?!?!
I DONT WANT TO LOSE 2 OF MY CLOSEST FRIENDS!!!!
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7th Grade Boy Problems & Pregnant at 12
Anonymous Question: At School in the 7th grade it's pretty tuff,I mean you are exposed to A LOT of things Like:My Friend was PREGNANT and she's only 12 she had an abortion,and now she's engaged to the father of the baby!
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I'm 10 and Like This Boy
Question: I just wanted to tell you something and maybe you could answer it. So I am talking to this boy he is in 5th grade like me and he is 11 years old and I am 10 so I like hem in all but hers a problem because all my friends told hem I like hem....
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Flirting Friends
MySpace Conversation: We hang out sometimes but when I around him I feel like he flirty with me kind of but not too flirty like most guys do with a female. We are good friends. Idk..what that means or it just a guy thing to all females?
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Everything Happens For A Reasons
MySpacer Writes: I have believed everything happens for a reason my whole life... if I wouldn't have went with my ex to the lake for his birthday and ended up being ditched by him, I would never have meet the guy I like right now. But why did I meet him if all we do now is argue??? I think it's me that starts it. I want to call him and apologize for the way I have been acting but I don't know what to say to let him know that I really do like him and that I am really sorry for everything.
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He Tattooed Her Name After One Month
More Help says.. It’s only been a month and he got a tattoo with her name and I’m so upset with that. I have been crying and crying all day. Like I was with him for 3 years he never got a tattoo with my name. It makes me feel like crap, like I was never doing anything right. I don’t know what to do with my self???
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He Cheats But Keeps Sayin All the Right Stuff
MySpacer Wrote: hey its me again well im going through a crazy brake up and i kno that i shouldnt go back with him because he cheated on me 2many times its just hard not to u kno i dont kno wat to do i love so much we have a kid 2getther but i dont want to go back to him he keeps sayin all the right stuff to me and i think im fallin 4it
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Praise Report! 5 Saved!!
A Friend Writes... Love the page!!!! So neway I wanted to message you guys and let u know how good God is... tonight was the first night of our tent revival... we had over 200 there and 5 saved... also my boyfriend was saved a couple weeks ago and got baptised last Sunday... U can't tell me God doesn't answer prayers!!!!I LOVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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We've Been Through So Much
A friend writes.. Please keep my family in your prayers. My husband is overseas and we have been through so much since he has been in the navy and I pray everyday for our marriage to work. Thank u again for the add and the prayers.
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This Is Not the Life I Want for Myself
A Friend Wrote: Going through some crazy drama and don't even know why. Everything is too much for me that I'm gonna start going to church every sunday starting this sunday coming up, I come to realize that I need god in my life and just need to start my life fresh. This is not the life I want for myself... Been doing a lot of thinking to myself and need to just do and stop thinking so much about it but at times I just feel like given up on myself...
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It Hurts That He Has Another Girlfriend
Hey Ladies A little Advice Please
Hey..I want to know why does it hurt to see your ex-boyfriend with another female or when he talks about her. I cried for about 2 hours yesterday cause he has a new girlfriend and it really bothers me. So much that I said off the wall stuff to him, even though he was doing me wrong. He was cheating on me and starting alot of drama. I still have love for him. Why is that? How can I get over him? Cause I feel like it can hurt my future relationships with the next guy?
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I'm 13 and I Want To Date
Question: im 13 and my mom didnt tell me anything about dating. i wanna date but what if he wants to come over? if i tell him that my mom wont let me have boys over he might break up with me
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How Can I Tell My Parents About My Boyfriend? Part 2
Girl’s Reply: thanx for the advice but i dont if u understand..i like him alot i think i might even love him and i dont DO NOT want to break his heart and i no he feels the same.its not like my grades r slippping im just as focused on school as i waz when i didnt have a boyfriend.ok ill admite that my conshents is bother me about it and i hate keepng stuff from me parents because it always comes out ugly.how do i NOT break the boys heart and tell my parents its impossible =[ =[
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How Can I Tell My Parents About My Boyfriend?
Anonymous Wrote: i really need ur help i have a big situation...i think im falling in love with a boy =] =[ the problem is im not allowed 2 have any boy friends but i made an exception for him. i just wish my parents would no that im wise enough to have and handle a boyfriend i really want to tell them and my boyfriend want me to 2 but i just cant so that. Its like when i talk to them about boy or even try to they dont listen to every thing. all they listen to is the boyfriend part i say… they may not no that but i no...plezz help what do i do!!
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I Like Him but He's Not Christian
A MySpace Friend Wrote: havent forgotten God, i haven't, but I don't feel Him like before. And my soul yearns for him....but my flesh desires worldy things. Though i haven't done anything wrong with this guy...and everything feels right when i'm with him when i go to church or talk to my pastor for some reason i feel ashamed....i feel dirty and i dont know why. I know i'm wrong,i know that God has promised great things for me, i just feel like i cant let go of this guy because he's good to me and doesn't deserve me to break his heart bc i know what that feels like......so i write to you today, asking you for help...asking you for prayer.
I dont know what to do...?????
Can you help me?
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Everyone Says I Shouldn't Be Friends
Anonymous said...
I have this friend that everyone says i shouldnt be friends with cuz she makes my attitude alot worse nd i sneek around and lie to my parents all the time cuz her.She also tells me what to do and if i dont she yells at me.Should i stop being her friend??
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What Do You Do When You're Talked About? Pt2
Anonymous Replies.. nahh i think im just gunna beat her up :]
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What Do You Do When You're Talked About?
Anonymous Asks.. What do you do when a someone goes and tells someone something that she wasnt supposed to.
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The Case of the Missing Ring
Situation: im living with my fiance and his parents. they drink vodka and get drunk every night. his dad doesnt bother me at all. he is awsome. his mom i cant stand. last night when i was in the shower my engagement ring went missing.
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I Want To Be Saved
MySpace Friend asks: How did you become saved? I always have wanted to be saved, but there's this thing that I've been doing and its hard me to stop.
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After School Started She Changed
Anonymous asks.. hey well i have a friend.every time she iz around me she acts like goofy old me.but when she goes around othes girls she tries 2 act all cool.i noe that sometimes she get a little jealous of me because most of the boys like but that doesnt really matter.but any ways.this past summer we were always 2gether,but after school started she just changed.in the hall ways she doesnt say anything 2 me.but when were at my house she could talk up a storm.i just want a friend that iz a friend around me AND around other people.
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I'm A Witch Cuz That's What I Am
Response: answer me something y did u request to be my friend? cuz u think i need help or be cuz u think u used to be like me............n im not spiritually looking for crap.............n im not a witch cuz i think that a spell will fill in the VOID in my heart. that is who i am.............and do yourself a favor stop acting like your doing Gods work. as if u can make a difference in someones life...............cuz some may take it worse then i did..............oh and another thing if i wanted your help i would of looked for it or asked for it................peace
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Not Even God Can Help Me Pt2
Her Response: no disrespect but if god has a plan for me he needs to get down here n tell me wut it is cuz i dont see it............n quite frankly i have more lives then a damn cat n these days i wish i hadn’t
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Not Even God Can Help Me
Statement: well trust me im far from help not even god cant help me
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How Do You Figure You Used To Be Me?
Anonymous Wrote: not to be a smart but how do u figure u used to be like me.............im curious
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Together for 2 Yrs and I Can't Trust Him
QUESTION:WELL THERE IS THIS I BEEN WITH FOR 2 YEARS ON AND OFF AND WE FINALLY ARE TRYIN TO GIVE A CHANCE FOR THE LAST TIME BUT HE DOESN'T TRUST ME AND I DNT TRUST HIM. WHEN WE TRY TO HOOK UP THERE'S ALWAYS A EXCUSE ABOUT HIM BEING BUSY. I'VE SEEN HIM TALK TO GIRLS AND GIVE HIS NUMBER OR TAKIN NUMBERS FROM THEM AND I'M GOIN THRU A LIL DOWN FALL BUT WHEN I CAN ALWAYS HELP HIM WHEN I CAN BUT I CAN'T SAY I CAN RELY ON HIM SO WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO
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My Friends & Family Don't Like Him
Anonymous Asks.. My ex-boyfriend wants to get back with me, but a couple of friends and siblings don't like him AT ALL!! What do I do? I kind of do want to get back with him, but I don't want to cause more drama for him.
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Respecting My Decision
Question:
I'm celibate now and I have been for like 4 months (doin my BEST)...is it possible to find a man who will wait til marriage AND remain faithful??? Even a preacher will cheat on their spouse!
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We Broke Up But Now He's All Alone
Anonymous said...
My boyfriend and I just recently broke up and I’m taking it pretty hard. Our all too frequent arguments got the best of our relationship which ended in a terrible way… What really is hurting me is that I know my ex doesn’t have anyone right now. He has no family and no one to encourage his walk with the Lord. I feel that I want to stay in his life to encourage him to seek the Lord but I also think that will make the break-up harder on the both of us and possibly bring us back together when we might need some time apart to develop a closer relationship with the Lord. What should I do?
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Internet Love
Anonymous Asks:
Hey. Well Im having a difficult time right now. Im not really sure what to do. I had an internet boyfriend from England, and I have never met him, but we did the whole web cam, and talked on the phone a few times. I managed to fall pretty hard for him. We argued a lot of the time, but we still cared about each other enough to use the word love. I was upset with him, and he decided he would end it for me, because I refused to because I still loved him. Anyway I went to see a friend of mine for the first time,and he only lives a couple hours from me. I really started liking this guy…
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He Liked My Friend And Now He Wants To Date ME
Anonymous Asks: Thats really cool that you do that...well I need some advice then. What do you think about this meesage and mind you that I barely know this guy. It was my friends long lost friend , they just meet up back tohether a couple months ago and he was all like all about her and then saw me and wants me to be his girlfriend. I don't trust it as far as I can throw it but heres the message. Write me back so I can see what your opinon is.
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My Friend Doesn't Understand
Anonymous Wrote:
My best friend and I have known each other for over 10 years; we know each other very well… My boyfriend and I don't drink or go to clubs and I feel she was upset about that. I feel that she is really demanding of my time and doesn’t understand that I don’t want to fall back into the world. I don't know if it's me being a bad friend or if it’s something on her part. She is catholic but doesn’t go to church or anything, I am Christian and want a closer relationship with the Lord. What should I do?
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He Said I'm Ugly
QUESTION: ok in 6th grade i met this boy... mi first boyfriend who treated me bad... ithought... he never wanted to be around me wit his friends n called me names but i relly like him.. he was my first kiss n so i thought at the time love.... we went on n off datin about a year... n then he just dumped me... i was heartbroken.... for nights i cried myself tosleep he hurt me that bad... i thought that this was the way all relationships are... i have garded my heart ever since... then next year this guy liked me so i let him do what he pleased.. i kissed him when he wanted me to n i let him fill me up... i was hurt n confused...
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Teenage Mom
ANONYMOUS WROTE: … I feel If someone was there for me I wouldnt have done half the stuff I done. I used to be into drugs, drinking, and used to have some one night stands and really didnt respect myself. I dropped out of school at young age I had a baby when I was 18. I always hung around the wrong people …
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Insecurities & Low Self Esteem Causing Problems
Anonymous said...
I’m in my mid twenties and have been with my boyfriend a little over two years. When we get along we get along so great! But when we fight (argue) it’s out of control. We both tend to say the most hurtful things to each other and within a day or less we’re over it and happy again. It seems at times that my insecurities and low self-esteem are the cause of our problems but I’ve been this way for so long that I don’t know how to change. I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me but I’m afraid that my insecurities are getting in the way of us being happy together.
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My Friend Is Hitting On Me
Anonymous wrote... im confused about my sexuality.... i believe in Jesus christ i am a good christian girl n i go 2 church im a virgin but mi bestfriend is coming onto me n fillin my head with sexual unpure thoughts n shes already tried to kiss me n... i dont no wut to do....
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He Says I'm His Only Girl
Anonymous asks.. I need some advice about my boyfriend. Well we haven't been together for that long its been about 2 months now. Anyways my question is is he cheating on me? See right now we are having a long distance relationship. … she actually kissed him and was on him...
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He Parties All Week & Has No Job
QUESTION:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3months but we have known each other since elementery school. I just broke up with him last week because he goes out 7days a week and gets drunk, he dont have a job but he goes out every night. I told him from the begining that i didnt like that he goes out every night, that he should get up and look for a job,
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How Do I Know If My Man Is Cheating?
J Wrote: Hi my name is J i have a boyfriend that loves me to death but i keep getting messages from other girls that are telling me that they are dating him.i want to believe him but i have no idea if he is telling me the truth or not what should i do???
How do I know if my man is cheating??
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He Wants Me To Become A Polygamist Pt2
Girl’s Reply: thank you so much i will do my best to leave and find another place to stay and if you will please keep me in your prayers
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He Wants Me To Become A Polygamist Pt1
QUESTION: k heres the thing i have a boyfriend and he wants me to be polygamist and i really dont believe in that and he doesn’t want to be with me if i am not that and i love him and if i do leave him i have no place to go i will be homeless what do i do i am so confused do i stay with him so i can have a place to stay or tell him that i do not believe that and move on and just be homeless please help me
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He’s Dating 2 of My Friends
Helplessindahill wrote... Ok so i have this friend,best friend, and she was talking to me on the phone. We were planning to go see Batman this friday. Ne way she says "u kno i GO OUT with _______ now?" I was kind of bothered by this because this guy also goes out with my god sister.(my friend doesn't know about her) I had just seen them 2gether the day b4. B4 he got saved and started playing drums and keyboard for my church, he was known to be a player...my question is should i say ne thing to ne body or should i jus sit back and watch him play my god sister like that.
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Love Triangle
ANONYMOUS WROTE: (names are changed for anonymity) … We write each other and he is worried that I love another guy... I do... I think. I told Darren that I love someone else and that didn’t go to well.. I think I messed that up and I really like him.... but I think he will stick with me and work this out. But there’s still Andrew... he keeps calling. He wants me to go out to his farm with him during harvest to keep him company... and I can’t say no.... I’m lost... fer reals
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Answer – Almost Ready to Give Up… Help!
ANSWER:
Wow..it's amazing how I feel your pain...
I knew the day would come that I would no longer be able to hide behind my short testimony. I knew that were girls out there just like me that had been raped or molested, but I feared being completely vunerable. So I chose not to share it. In fact until I decided to start this ministry I had not even told my husband of 10 years. I know what it feels like to be taken advantage of.
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Question – Almost Ready to Give Up… Help!
Anonymous says.. I come to you, strangers, because I have nowhere else to go.
I have read all of your testimonies, and think its amazing what God has done in all of your lives. I can't even pretend I have lived through any of what you guys have.
But at the same time, I'm not sure you can identify with what I have lived.
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Did I Do the Right Thing?
Question.. Ok..i'll try to shorten up the story. Me and Chris dated twice before we got together the 3rd time. We just recently broke up like 3 days ago and dated a lil over 11 months. He would bring up my ex-boyfriends and try to get me not hanging out with my best friend. It took him 5 months to stop talking about one of my ex-boyfriends. During Christmas he was just an a**hole..to be blunt.
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt4
Response.. Well I feel as I am doing nothing wrong and that God may understand and still love me for who I am no matter who else I may love. If you can't be with the one you love why live at all?
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt3
Response.. I get that but I am who I am and I am a good person. I serve the Lord at all times and I never look back. I love the Lord just as much as I love myself. Why is it soooo wrong for me to love the same sex, let alone love my girl. She means the world to m. She is everything I could ever want and a person. So why should I change and let her think that she is not what I want and she is not who I love. I have a big heart and there is room for the Lord and my girl.
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt2
Response.. Ok. I see and thanks. I just needed to ask because I do go to church and my church family has taken me for who I am. I am a kind and loving person who is open to everyone around me. I don't hide things but I just wantd to know that there are people who can take me for who I am. Not seeing me as just another gay person who has turned against the Lord because it's not like that at all.
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt1
Question.. I am gay and I was wondering would that affect the way you look at me? Don't lie because God doesn't like ugly!
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Tiny Voice Telling Me to Let Go
Anonymous said...
I need advice… I wish he was more concerned about his career and his walk with God than tattoos and his car. I love him so much but I want to be with someone that loves God with all his heart. The fights we have tell me that maybe God doesn’t want us together but then again we have so much fun together. Should I stay in this relationship and trust God will help work things out or should I trust the tiny voice in my head telling me to just let go and move on?
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It’s So Hard to Forgive
Question:
… he took me out on our first date since our break up, and we have been inseparable since then. he tells me that im his soul mate and he is sorry from the bottom of his heart. and swears he will never do it again! its hard to believe him but i love him. he is deploying in August and I'm scared for my life. I'm scared he is going to cheat again and i don't know what to think... can you help me?
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He’s Choosing Drugs Over Me Part 2
Continued from He’s Choosing Drugs Over Me Part 1
Response:
Thank you. But we always argue about it when we talk about it. I don't want to leave him I really don't. I have given him everything if you know what I mean!? i can't leave him. I don't have the strength to.
Answer:
It sounds like you are idolizing him. God should be your everything!
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He’s Choosing Drugs Over Me
Question:
Well I'm 20 years old and I'm in love with this guy name Cody. Well i used to be in drugs real bad and so i cleaned up and I'm going to school. Thats where I met him. Well I asked him to slow down on smoking weed and he has but I kinda want him to quit because if we have kids i don't want them around that. i don't want to leave him but I can't stand this because it puts me down. What do I do?
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My Heart Skipped A Beat
QUESTION: Hey do me a favor and go look at my profile at my latest blog. It's all about this guy I meet this weekend and I want to know what you think. Like am I falling way to fast for him or is it just a summer fling??? I really really like him though!
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Relationship In Jeopardy
Anonymous ask.. My fiance is in the army and he says he loves me but the other night he invited a girl over to his place to watch movies alone on his bed. I found out about it and i asked him and he said that he planned it to hurt me but he loves me and doesn't want it to end. Is our relationship in jeopardy? I love him to death and I told him. I have been honest with him I just haven't been open with my feelings because he keeps lying to me. What do I do? Please can you help me?
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My Lustful Desires
QUESTION: im 18 n im not a virgin ne more n sometimes i get these overwhelming desires to just hook up w/ ppl i start gettin to kno.....is that normal??
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I Can't Trust Him. I Am Tired Of His Lies.
Anonymous said...Okay, so my question is:What should I do about a boyfriend that I question all of the time? He's a sweet guy, but he lies to me all of the time. We've been together for 3 years and he is the one who got me into Church, thankfully, but when we met he used to constantly tell mewhat I should and should not be doing in terms of how God sees thing. This is a good thing, but then I've caught him lying to me on several occasions about other girls. I don't believe he has physically cheated, but I have caught him red handed lying to me about sending flirtatious messages over myspace to girls that he knows. He's a sweet guy, a gentlemen, but every time he apologizes and says it won't happen it happens again and now I constantly second guess everything he tells me. He's also a youth leader and keeps this information about his lies hidden from his own friends and family.
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He Wants To Hang But He Doesn't Want To Commit. Help!
Anonymous asks..I have a guy that I like and am interested in. We both have past of being hurt and are afraid but I am trying to follow Gods will. This guy wants to take his time and I totally respect that but at the same time he is scared with being honest with his feelings and it is very hard to not get tempted in this situation.He likes to hang out with me and want to see what happens but does not want to make a commitment. HELP!!!
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My Cheating Ex
Confused Asked: I'VE BEEN WITH MY EX FOR THREE YEARS ON AND OFF AND WE FINALLY BROKE UP CUZ HE WAS CHEATING ON ME. OUT THE BLUE HE CALLS AND SAID THAT HE WANTS TO TAKE ME OUT FOR HIS BIRTHDAY IT DOESN'T SOUND RIGHT WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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I Need Help With My Brother
Hey Girls,
I have a brother that goes through a lot and I try to talk to him about God but it seems like he doesn't want to listen. Sometimes he feels like he wants to commit suicide but he doesn't. I do care about him. What should I do? I think he's gotten therapy. I just wanna know should I continue to talk to him about God and pray for him? He's not on drugs he's only 15. Thanks for your answer.
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Getting Married To Another Girl Pt 2
Continued from Getting Married To Another Girl..What Do You Think?
Anonymous responds..That's what I fell for.
Answer..That's exactly what it is a fall..you have fallen for the lies of the enemy. He has been planning since the day you were born to kill you, steal from you, and destroy you. Listen to what Jesus said,"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
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I Don't Want To Wake Up Any More!
No More Asked..What do I do I wish that I don’t wake up in the mornings no more? Everything is going wrong.
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My Friend Becomes My Boyfriend-Everything's A Mess
Anonymous asks..Wow... Great timing on the request! Ok well.. me and my best guy friend have been friends for two and a half years. Well not too long ago we tried dating. Along with alot ALOT of complications we ended up breaking up and we fought alot after it. He has told me he never wanted to see me and didnt want to play this game with me. But yet after I leave town to think and when I come back he acts like nothing ever happened!!! Things got really bad on and off... now I just don't feel the same about him. But he still messages me and tells me he loves me. I know I love him too, but I'm not in love with him. You know what I mean? I no thats really confusing but any help???
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Getting Married To Another Girl..What Do You Think?
Anonymous asked..So I'm with a female and I love her. We have been going out for three months and we are getting married and getting our own place. What do you think?
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What Does The Bible Say About Clubbing?
Lil Bro asks..What does the bible say about partying and clubbing?
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He's Back. What Do I Do?
Strongatheart Asked... Last summer I went out with this guy and we were close but then he broke it off in a really mean way. Now I have a boyfriend, who I'm not so sure about and I saw that guy the other night and we had fun. It was like nothing had ever happened and he even apologized. Now I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know what to think. I'm very confused about everything. Have any advice on the situation?
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In A Relationship For 3 Years, But I Like Girls
B asks..Let me tell you my situation. I have a boy friend that I have been with for 3years and I love him so much. We have a baby girl and she is my world, but I also like girls. I mean I really do a whole lot and I dont know what to do?
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Is He The Guy For Me?
JESUSGIRL18 asks.. I just wanted to talk about waiting for the right guy. How do you know a guy is right for you? There's this guy in Africa he said he was Christian and he gave his life to Christ but my mom says he just saying that. So do I keep on waiting for the right guy that God has for me or do I just talk to the Africa guy that is a Christian?
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My Smoking Friend
Anonymous Asks... Hey, I just want to know what do I do when a really close friend is smoking? He told me that he wasn't like that. Should I still be his friend?
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My BFF's Hate Each Other
Anonymous said... I have 2 really good best friends that hate each other. It's hard 2 just hang out with 1 and not the other. They always get mad at me. I just don't know what 2 do please help me.
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I'm 13. My Mom Won't Let Me Have A Boyfriend
Anonymous said.. I am thirteen years old. A boy in school asked me to be his girlfriend. My mom says that I am not allowed to start dating or have a boyfriend until I am sixteen. I feel like I am mature enough to have a boyfriend now. I don’t understand why I have to wait. I feel like she is being over protective and treating me like a baby. I don’t want to disobey her or God but I really like this boy. What should I do?
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Don't Be Afraid To Be Different
Q: "I’m a Christian girl and everyone picks on me at school because I won't go to the parties and hang out and drink with them. They are always picking on me. I am getting so tired of being so different. Sometimes I just want to give up."
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I Have A Lot of Peer Pressure
Anonymous said...Hi, what do I do when I feel like I have alot of peer pressure?????
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Why Is It So Hard To Do The Right Thing?
Anonymous said...Why is it so hard to do the right thing, when you know what you doing is wrong. This is the second time that I'm asking for advice. And I know what I have to do but every time I make my mind up to end this friendship w/ this guy I met; I can't. I've moved to a new city and hardly know anyone. I've made some friends w/ ppl that I go to school w/ but don't really hang out w/ them outside school. I met this guy about a month back, I know he's interested in me but I'm not really interested in making him my man- just someone to hang out w/
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Stop Discriminating & Hating. People Are Born Gay
Anonymous says in response to the posting ‘I Don’t Think I Am Wrong’This answer is absolutely ridiculous. People are born gay. They don't choose to be gay. Its scientifically proven. Look it up. Therefore, it is not a sin. Stop discriminating and hating. Start accepting and loving.
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He No Longer Wants To Be There For the Birth Of His Son
T. Marshall said...The father of my child is no longer in the picture. Although he was the one who told me he was ready to have children and wanted to have them with me, I found out the hard way that that wasn't true. I've been having complications in my pregnancy and was finally put on bed rest until I go into labor. Even though my son's father isn't in the picture, I still have contact with him. When I let him know about the complications and the bed rest he told me that it was best for him if I didn't contact him until the baby is here on earth. Meaning, to me, that he no longer wanted to be there for the birth of his son.
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A Guy Is In Love With Me But I Don't Feel the Same
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I Don't Know What To Do Or How To Do It
Anonymous said...Ok i am right now facing pretty tough dicisions i am 18 years old and next year i will be graduating but i dont know what to do or how to do it God has given me a great talent with writing poetry and short stories but the problem is how do i incorportate that into college i really want to be an published author but i dont know where to begin
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He's Having A Hard Time Sticking With One Girl
Anonymous' Prayer Request...Please pray for my "friend" Steven. He's having a hard time sticking with one girl and I know I still love him, even his sister says she can't see him happier or becoming a better Christian with anyone else but me. So please pray that he will learn what he's doing to these girls.
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He Wants to Overcome These Thoughts of Lust
Just want 2 help out said...I have a friend and he is at the moment struggling with something...
He is a christian who does pray, stays away from wordly pleasures and is on the right track. But he shared with me that he has a struggle, now that hes in a new school (where there are so many pretty girls around) he has a problem where he notices that he looks at them in a wrong way
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He’s Going Thru A Lot… Please Pray for Him
Prayer Request from rossy...i had a boyfriend that goin to alot of problem on his life so im i he goin to live canada live me along in west palm i hope everything go well so he could come back to my arm .we bein goin out 1yrs an month .i hope god help him will he gone .thanks
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I Feel So Lost and Confused
Anonymous said... I need advice on a subject that everybody keeps telling me to just simple move on from its better said then done i was in a relatinship with this guy and i really loved him i mean i really did to the point where my relationship with god faded everyday.He later broke up with me because he said that we had nothing in common long story short the day that me and him broke up he was already trying to get with this girl...
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I Found Out He's Not A Virgin
My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 or 5 months. We love each other very very much and want to get to know everything about each other. We both grew up in Christian homes and still go to church. I have grown in my faith a lot; I'm a youth leader for grade 8 girls at my youth group and he has volunteered with children's ministry and is taking over the whole thing this fall! We haven't started doing devotions together but have agreed that we ought to start doing them together.I'm very much in love with him, that is why I was concerned with how far he has gone in previous relationships. I found out VERY recently, like 2 days ago!! that he is not a virgin.
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My 16-yr-old is Not Pure Anymore
Anonymous said...How to handle finding out your 16 yr daughter is partly not pure anymore. I haven't said anything to her yet. But My first reactin is to ground her and make her read verses all day. I'm so hurt by this
I'm having a hard time typin.
Please Help.
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Sometimes I Still Get A Bit Jealous
HI I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE :)I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND HE IS A MAN OF GOD AND HELPS ME OUT ALOT. BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM, I HAVE A TENDENCY TO GET JEALOUS ALOT OF TIMES. I KNOW THAT I CAN TRUST HIM BECAUSE HE HAS PROVEN THAT TO ME AND I KNOW THAT HE TRULY CARES ABOUT ME AND LOVES ME. BUT THERES A GIRL AT CHURCH THAT LIKES HIM AND SHE IS HIS EX
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How Can I Guard My Heart and Stay Immersed in Christ?
Hello! I need some advice. I am 17 years old, and I am dating a wonderful 17-year-old Christian boy. We met a couple of months ago and we instantly clicked. It's like we've always been friends.… I could and would "fall in love" with this guy. I could see us spending our lives together. But I also want to guard my heart
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I Let Vanity Get To My Head
Hi...I just really need to ask something and in a way blow off some steam!I know this guy from my church and hes a really close friend of mines. But i have a problem. It all started when i recently began to dress more "sexy" and guys began to give me much more notice. Now i believe women should be modest in there appearance, (of course that doesnt mean we should be "frumpie") but there is a limit, and i believe i passed it with my much more tighter and revealing clothes.we go to school together and he noticed that guys started checking me out and flirting with meRead Complete Posting
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The Truth Has Definitely Not Set Us Free
Update from the posting Letting Her Down Easy on January 31st, 2009Anonymous says..
So I am the girl who had the problem about the singing group (not choir)with the girl that couldn't sing well at all. I did just as you suggested. We prayed hard, and because we couldn't get together with the girl, we called her and said pretty much "We love you, but we will honestly tell you that you can not sing on tune." We even told her we would be willing to let her sing with us as long as she got some singing instruction first...even though we know there is no way to teach someone to sing when they are that bad. She promptly hung up.
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Too Much Emotional Drama
Its been a while since i asked for advice ... but i am only a teenager.. i cant help it ... i have a problem that every teenager deals with and its hard to rid of.. but i am trying and i dont know where ...or how to start..so i need help... I used to be so centered around God about 3 years ago ... i havent let go... but i have fallen back some steps and its hard to catch up ... but my problem is ... that i bring- cause alot of drama between myself and world... not physically emotionally its taking its toll on meRead Complete Posting
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I Don’t Know How To Sort It All Out
Being an only child can do strange things to you, believe me, I know. It sometimes makes you think you're the princess the world revolves around, and other times it leaves you feeling completely alone in the world. When I was young, I prayed for a sibling, and when I was 10, I got the chance I'd always wanted. My mom was pregnant! When my brother was born, I was ecstatic. But only a few hours after he was born the doctors noticed something was wrong. He was born with a hole in his tiny heart. He died two short weeks later, and my life has never been the same.
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I Like A Guy Who Is Already In A Relationship
I recently have come to the realization that I like a guy who already is in a relationship. I hate being in this situation and would never dream of trying to get in between him and his girlfriend, however I am really struggling because the more I am around him, the more I like him. He is just one of the sweetest boys I have ever met. Its hard because we go to the same college, while his girlfriend (of 2 1/2 years) goes to another college and he commutes most weekends to see her.Read Complete Posting
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He Is Not the Spiritual Leader I Need. Should I End It?
I don't know what to do anymore...I am 21 and i can remember at church camp, a counselor telling the girls to write down ten qualities we wanted in a husband and to stick to them. For almost five years I dated a guy who had all of those qualities and more. Romantic, kind, and he was a spirtual leader in our relationship and he served in our church. We prayed together, did devotions together and he treated me really well but six months after we graduated high school he called and broke things off. I was devistated. I loved him very much but within a year he was married.Read Complete Posting
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Consumed by Fear
HI I AM 18 YEARS OLD AND I HAVE A PROBLEM. I LOVE LIFE BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH FEAR. I AM 18 YEARS OLD AND I STILL DONT HAVE MY DRIVERS PERMIT OR A LICENCE. WHY? BECAUSE ITS FEAR. EVERY SINCE I WAS YOUNG I HAVE HAD THIS FEAR. ITS GOTTEN SO BAD THAT I CAN'T EVEN GO TO THE STORE WITH OUT HAVING MY CELL PHONE TO MY EAR AS A DISTRACTION. I HAVE TO TALK TO SOMEONE TO NOT FOCUS ON THE FEAR.Read Complete Posting
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What If School Doesn’t Work Out?
Continued from Should I Forgive Others That Treat Me Wrong?
hello! :)I was thinking about my future plans like i going to school to become a RN but someone i don't know, really I just met today at school, she was nice and things like that, so she ask me what are your plans after college, i told her and then she ask me, what if don't work out that way, do I have a plan-b and I say no b/c I focused on school and maintain a high GPA, not really think about if it not going to work out like it should b/c i know that going to do well in school.my question :What if it don't work out, God have a plan for me or he already has, im not see it?
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Is It Alright to Tell My Testimony No Matter What It Is?
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Should I Forgive Others That Treat Me Wrong?
Hello, it's me again. I have a question for u to ask so here i go. Lets say that I have a family member that I know most of my life and treats me bad, like not physical but emotional. I feel like I am not good enough. Even he says that I am not college material or I am not going to make it in school. I am enrolled as a full-time student to be become a RN so I took some honor classes while I was in high school the last four yrs. I was second in my class, involved in school events, never been in trouble in school and always called myself a bookworm because I study mostly everyday if i can, so "What kind of person treat me this way?"Read Complete Posting
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He Has to Choose to Open the Door
i have a major problem i have been praying for my ex boyfriends salvation god put it on my heart to pray to him that by the end of january that he would call my ex into a personal devoted relationship with God for this whole month i have been fasting and praying for him and other family members i now things are surpose to go bad before they get good i just dont knoW please get back to me on this as soon as you read this please i need adviceRead Complete Posting
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I Pray Every Night for This Man to Disappear
I dont know what to do anymore. My mother divorced my dad during my early teen years and since then she has been dating this guy that doesnt respect her at all and the worse part is that he doesnt respect me. I pray everynight for this man to disappear from her life and everytime I see his face I just want to blow up. I've had conversations with my mother about him but she told me that she doesnt care about how I feel and that she is not going to leave him...Read Complete Posting
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Letting Her Down Easy
I have an urgent question. My three friends and I decided to sing in church, something we have been hoping to do for a long time. Our youth leader gave us a week to practice a song. We realized we were pretty good except for one thing, the girl who is most enthusiastic and excited about it is also tone-deaf-she can't not sing at all and has never had any singing experience...Read Complete Posting
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Should They Be Friends for the Sake of the Child?
Anonymous said... I need advice... I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes I feel like I can't handle the situation I'm in. My boyfriend has a son with another girl. Although we have been together for three years it still gets to me sometimes. I love his son and he cares a lot for me also but I don’t get along with his ex. I guess because she has already made up her mind that she doesn't like me and doesn't want anything to do with me it makes it uncomfortable my boyfriend around her. I get along with her whole immediate family but she is very manipulative and doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings but her own.
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He Had A Fling & She Got Pregnant Too
Anonymous said...
Ok so..here goes...My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. Not being obedient, we had a daughter, now shes 7 mos. However, now we broke up for about one month, and he had a fling with another woman and she got pregnant as well.
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A Book That Gives Advice on Raising Children
I need some help. I'm 22 years old and just returned from working abroad. I was in a relationship with a man while I was away, and got myself pregnant. When I told him this, he didn't want any part of the whole thing. My parents are being very understanding, and even trying to give me books on parenting. The ones on single parenting they have found for me are all referring to divorce, death,or other ways the parents separated but are both in the child's life. I'm trying to find a book, that is not for teenagers, that will give advice on raising a child on your own when the father is never going to be there for the child.Read Complete Posting
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I Believe Sex Before Marriage is Fine
Matthew 19:4-6 (Contemporary English Version)4Jesus answered, "Don't you know that in the beginning the Creator made a man and a woman? 5That's why a man leaves his father and mother and gets married. He becomes like one person with his wife. 6Then they are no longer two people, but one. And no one should separate a couple that God has joined together."I just would like to know how that is represented as ONLY married people have to be virgins? You think the writers of God would come on out and say it. I think when it says "He becomes like one person with his wife" It means they unite in marriage and they are now one.I believe sex is ok as long as it IS the person that you're going to be with for the rest of your life.Read Complete Posting
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I've Been Wondering for A Little While Now
WARNING THIS POSTING IS GRAPHIC IN NATURE..
Anonymous said...
I've been wondering for a little while now... Is anal sex the same as regular(vaginal) sex, in the sense that one loses their virginity? If I were to have anal sex, would I no longer be a virgin? Or is anal sex pretty much the same thing?.
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If He Doesn't Get His Life Right, I Can't Be With Him
Anonymous said...I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. He has had it pretty hard growing up; he's been on his own since he was 15. We are now in our mid 20's and I'm ready to get my career going. I haven't been to school in a while but I'm ready to get serious now. I see myself marrying my boyfriend the only problem is.. he is in major debt (that he pays no attention to) and he doesn't have a good paying job.Read Complete Posting
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Forgive Him & Let It Go
denay said...Hi this is my first time ever being on this site and I need advice bad i mean really bad I have been in a relationship with God EVERY since I was 12 and I am now 18.Well i have just gotten out of this relationship with my ex boyfriend he broke up with me we were going out for almost two years he was my first love.he broke up with me for another girl and this girl is very how can i say this freaky he is a virgin and now he goes with her.
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The Battle Is In My Mind
A young friend says..I've like this guy for soooo long and I just can't seem to get over him no matter what. I have never had a boyfriend so I'm kind of scared. And there's not a lot of differences with us besides age and grade, I'm 14 and he's 17.
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My Ex Never Got Rid of the Indecent Pictures & Video of Me
Anonymous Wrote: Sister, I need your help and prayers. I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and in that year I also became a Christian. As a new believer, I did not listen to God as much as I should have. As a result, I ended up emailing my ex bf undesirable pictures and a video of me.Read Complete Posting
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I’m Catholic & He’s Baptist… We Can’t Agree!
Question… i have been dating this guy and we have been talking about getting married and how we are going to raise our kids if and when we decide to have them...well i am catholic and believe strongly in my faith my boyfriend is baptist and hes not fond of the catholic faith at all...Read Complete Posting
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He Believes He is His Own God & Supports Satanism
Anonymous Writes... please help me sister. I have this friend who also happens to be an ex-boyfriend of mine. We didnt talk for ages and only started talking again this year? (broke up last year) He is VERY opinionated and believes that he is his own God and supports satanism. Being christian I wanted to help him and i've been trying to tell him about God. However he brings up hard questions like about how the kids in Africa are suffering and keeps saying why doesn't God save them. I try to answer but I'm not too sure myself...Read Complete Posting
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A Prayer for A Friend
MySpace Friend's Comment on 7th Grade Boy Problems & Pregnant at 12:... Most of the guys and girls at my school are exposed to a lot of drug uses @ there own house.
Well this is the last week of school until winter break and we haven't been to school AT all this week but we went a half a day on Monday and haven't been since and doubt if we will have school this week at all but to get to the point these guys across from my lunch table but we have booths they had brought marker(s) to lunch and were getting high off this. It was kind of depressing because some of the guys are my friends and it was sad.
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I Have A Horrible Addiction to Masturbation and Pornography
Anonymous said...… I am a young female and i have a horrible addiction to pornography & masturbation and no matter how much i pray or try to stay away from this temptation i continue to fall. It's horrible and i know that it hurts the Lord when i do it and its also having bad affects on my self-esteem & self-worth. It gives me feelings of worthlessness, guilt, & shame. And it's also affecting my relationship with a good friend of mine…
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I Want To Make Sure This Love Doesn’t Turn To Lust
Anonymous said...Hi...I'm 20 years old and I'm in love with someone. We have been friends for a while and we both are FULLY devoted to God. But there's a problem...we have been through so much in our pasts and I know he just might be afraid of getting into a relationship because he wants to serve the Lord with no distractions (which I also agree with)especially since we have a ministry to look after. I've prayed to God and He tells me to wait...I just wanted to know what are some things I can do to ensure I stay patient and to make sure this love doesn't turn into lust.Thank you so much!!!
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He Likes to Make Me Angry Because He Finds It Attractive
Drained Wrote: i love my boyfriend so much but we argue everyday over little unimportant things. i also feel verbally and emotionally abused by him. he says he likes to make me angry because he finds it attractive when im stirred up. it's taking a toll on me and draining me out. i love him a lot and i don't want to leave him.what do i do?
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A Healing Prayer
Our Sister in Christ Writes...HEY GIRLS
I JUST NEED PRAYER FOR ME
I BEEN SICK SINCE LAST WEDNESDAY AND I AM NOT GETTING ANY BETTER SO PLEASE PRAY FOR ME
THANKS GIRLS
GOD BLESS
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The Worry Is Back
MySpace Friend Writes:The worrying is back, i took a final yesterday and did not do good on it. There is still another grade my teacher has to post which will determine if i will have a good grade in the class. I still have other finals to take but I'm starting to get discouraged. I have to get good grades to keep my gpa up so that I will be able to transfer to the new school. I'm trying hard not to let it bother me and pray about it but it keeps popping up in my mind.
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I'm Pregnant and He Left Me
Emailer: Wow I was really touched when I read your story im a single mother myself my boyfriend recently left me an im pregnant with our second child I know GOD is the only one that can help me through this trial but its soo hard to see that theres hope for me to make it through alone. My kids mean everything to me I know GOD has a better plan for us but its soo hard to see that when soo much is bringing me down.
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I Have A MAJOR Crush
… i am 19 year old who has a major CRUSH on robert pattinson the guy who plays edward in the movie i kno its not that good to like someone that much that you have never met but u only hear things about only my phsyical/ mental set has a tiny infatiuation with him and i know i will prolly never meet him it s just i really like him i kno its not normal ...what should i do!!!!Read Complete Posting
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I Just Want to Love My Family
A Friend Wrote… So i am twenty years old and married for four months. We are pregnant with our first child. But since we have been married we have not been able to live alone. If its not my family its his and i have to big of a heart to send anyone away. My cousin has a baby and is only sixteen her mom is in jail and she has been in and out of foster care her whole life. My husbands sister got kicked out of her house and also has a baby and has no where to go. I live off of a small income and my husband has been having trouble finding work. If i do right by my new familys needs and clear everyone out am i being selfish. I realy dnt know wat to do but realy need to provide a good home for my baby. Please pray for me and give me some guidence on wat to do. Sencerly mommy and baby on the wayRead Complete Posting
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We Broke Up Again, My Heart Is Broken
Anonymous comments: … Yesterday he split up with me because we had different desires for life, I wanted to travel, and he felt called to our country which made things awkward. I don't know how to get over him as everything felt so right before. He has messed with my emotions so much and everyone tells me I can do better and to stay clear of him.
I just want to be with him again, I couldn't get him out of my head for about a year last time, and now I can see it being worse. I want God to deal with him but I want to move on, I find it so hard.
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My Mind Is Playin Tricks On Me
Anonymous writes: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is so amazing, a Christian, our relationship is wonderful. We rarely fight and we respect each other and share in our love of the Lord. We planned to get married after college.
However, I've been struggling recently. Three nights in a row I've had the same dream about my ex-boyfriend, and I wake up feeling like I'm in love with him. As the day goes on I realize it was just what I was feeling in my dream, but it's made me question my relationship with my current boyfriend. I don't feel special to him anymore, and often I feel like I've been given the backseat to his new friends here at college. I don't know if my feelings and dreams are the devil playing with my head or God trying to tell me it's time to end my current relationship. I've been praying over this, but I still feel depressed and confused. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. God bless.
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I Like Him But He Says He Loves Me
A Friend Wrote: hi. im just ritin to u kuz u know i trst u not to say nutthin therez dis boy dat i like alot i met him in skool last year but like he always tell me he lovez me but i dnt feel that way wi him i dnt love him but i like him
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Getting Accepted Into the New University
Myspace Friend writes..
Hello,I was wondering could you all give me some advice or guidance. I am a college student and sometimes all the work can get overwhelming. It's like I have a big burdon on my shoulders. I have applied to another university to be closer to my family and spend less money on transportation. The university that I applied to is hard to get in. Could you all tell me scriptures to read to keep me motivated during school and confidence of getting accepted into the new university. I want to be accepted into the school so bad but sometimes I have my doubts, but I always say if I pray about it I shouldnt be worried about just leave it in his hands.
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I Want Her To Be Saved & Not Left Behind
Jesus Girl says... Hey girls! How are u? Anyway I have to ask u something. I have this friend, she is not a Christian and she drinks and smokes and I have been trying to invite her to church and activites from my youth group but everytime I ask her she never wants to come. She always hangs out with her other friends but not me. I am praying for her and her salvation and I know I can't change people only Jesus can but I do want her to know Jesus Christ. Anyways what do I do to show her who Jesus Christ is because I want to bring her to Christ and I want her to be saved and not left behind when Jesus comes back. Please tell me what to do. Thanks girls..GOD BLESS U!
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My Dad Threatened Violence Against My Boyfriend
Anonymous writes… ok heres my question my boyfriend when he was 17 had a relationship with a girl who was 13 he got in trouble for it. but came out of that a strong Christian and a better person. i am very much in love with him i plan to marry him. the problem is my father (im 20 years old by the way)he is a reserve cop and because of my boyfriend's past has threatened violence against him if he enters the house. my father is not a Christian. i feel that god has led me to my boyfriend and that he is the one i was meant for. he strengthens me and has helped me in times when i have doubted my own faith.
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I Decided to Stay Pure... She Offered Him Sex
Anonymous commented:
Hi....I need some really good advices...I've been going out with my bf for 5 months...everything was doing good until when I found flirtatious messages on his phone... I asked what was it about? After lying so much to me, it admitted that he met an old friend of his and it happened that they kissed and he said that was the only thing that happened. I beleived him and I told him that next time he does something like this ..I'm gonna break up with him...yesterday I found out that he had sex with the same girl that he kissed 6 weeks ago...I asked him why did he do that ?
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My Ex Left Me With 2 Kids
MySpace Friend Writes... I need ur advise i receantly got out of a 5yr relationship i have 2 kids with this guy. I have nothing i dont want 2 live with my dad ! But i have no were 2 go. And my ex boyfriend broke up with me a week ago and i cant get over him wat should i do? Plz reply
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I Don't Know How To Let Him Down. HELP!
brittany smith said...
I dated a guy for 4 monthes and suddenly we broke up. after we broke i was more respectful towards other people and towards myself. He recently asked to get back together but i dont think its the right time for that. he says he's in love with me and needs me. I just dont know how to let him down nicely. HELP!!!
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My God Won't Do Such A Thing
Anonymous Writes: I love your website and God bless you women for all that you do. I was taken back a little by the homosexuality questions. God does not make mistakes, therefore if we are created in the image of Him and if one chooses to like one of the same sex, how can He turn his back on them? The all-loving God I know won't do such a thing, in my opinion. That's what makes me question certain things to like if someone lived a PERFECT life doing good and so forth and unfortunately was born in another region where God was known by a different name or was not even taught therefore the person never knew Him but since they never acknowledged Him, they are going to be sent to Hell? That does not make sense to me. Can you clarify these questions I have? Thanks!
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I'm Gonna Give Her a Piece of My Mind
Anonymous’ Situation: long, long story short. I've been married for over ten years now, together we have four children a one son from his ex-girl. my step-son his 12 1/2 yrs old. for years there have been many situations where his ex has tried to make life with me & my husband hell, But the most damaging is what she has done to her own son. She tells her son lies about me his father and his half brothers and sisters, so when ever he comes over he would give problems. I hold back a lot of feelings inside and try my very best to be loving towards him but its so hard at times. I have a lot on my plate (we all do) and my husband is just as drained I am. Most time he pretends that everything is fine, but when ever it comes down to the weekend you could see the fustration in his spirit. when will it ever end.
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Can I Remarry After Divorcing My Abusive Husband?
Anonymous said…I am married, and have been for almost 8 years now, but we have been seperated for over a year. I left him because he was verbally abusive to me and our girls (3 daughters), and he ocasionally hit me when I didnt see things his way. He has a bad marajuana habbit, and even at one point tried to sell me to some guys for money. He also conviced me to do sexuzl things with other men while we were married, and would yell at me and hit me if I refused. Then when I did, he would say he hated me because I cheated on him. …. I know what the Bible says about marriage and divorce, so I wanted to honor that but I couldnt shake the feeling that this wasnt God's best for me
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They're Trying To Break Us Up
A Friend Asked: ok so my boyfriend a week before he met me was gonna ask this gurl out but she said she was 2 busy and then he met me.
what im trying 2 say is my best friend is trying 2 break us up.
and that gurl that almost went with him is trying 2 steal him from me so what do i do?
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Pressure of Being A Good Christian
Anonymous said...
God Bless you Sisters, I am 23 and I need help. I have four older sisters and am in a new relationship with a good christian guy. My sisters are very controlling and since I am the young one they treat me with absolute no respect. We are all christians but lately I feel like the pressure of being a good christain girlfriend and being respectful of my sisters is just too much.
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Pt4 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous Responds: you remember my problem with the boyfriend who cheated with the two babies my parents didnt like him rember me asking you for advice well he crys to me everynight on the phone i feel so bad for him its hard watching someone try hard knowing what you know that no matter how bad i feel my parents will never approve of him.....he said that he has been praying more i dunno i feel like super bad but he cheated but yeah i dunno what to do i really really dont i know i still have love for him but its so omgosh i need help badly
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Pt3 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous RespondsWell he says he made a big mistake. My family don't want me taking him back. If I do I get kicked out of my home. I feel bad b.c what if he is sincerely sorry?
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Pt2 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous responds.. Well I didn't get to read this until me and him broke up guess God answered me ...I am very hurt and betrayed I found out he had sex 2x and made out with his ex with kids and cheated on me. I feel very hurt by this. Pray for me and God bless.
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I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
Anonymous Asked... hey i know what your going thro i need advice simlar to that i have a boyfriend we been dating for 3 months he has 2 kids never married 23 i am only 19 so is his baby mama the babies are 2 and 1 boy and girl ..lately seems as tho he feels uncomfortable around both of us so she often trys to keep me and her apart ...
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How Do I Tell Him That I Cheated?
Anonymous Asks: Should I confess to my boyfriend what I did and hope he forgives me? Or is it better to just move forward. I know that I cheated out of stupidity. I was trying to live my life without God and was out partying and drinking. It's a life I no longer desire and something I want to forget.
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Pt2 Cont. from Baby Daddy Drama
MySpacer Responds:Does that mean I need to see him, or let him see the baby and I? I mean he hasn't done anything for either of us, and I don't want him to see our son...he doesn't even try. I guess what i'm trying to get at is can i forgive him and move on without letting him see the baby he does nothing for?
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Baby Daddy Drama
MySpace Friend Writes He didn’t even spend a single night with me in the hospital. He told me he needed to get some rest, but instead he left the hospital and spent the night with the other girl. Why is he trying to come back to me? I wanted him for soooo long, but it wasn't good enuff. Now that I dont want him, he wants me!!! I need some help. I'm so confused! Please help me!
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My Period is Almost 3 Weeks Late
Anonymous said...
My period is almost 3 weeks late. I have taken about 5 at home pregnacy test, but they have all came out negative. Could I still be pregnant? I havent taken a pregnacy test in about 5 days. Should I take another one? I have talked to my boyfriend about this and he is ok with the fact that I may be pregnant. We just both want to know if I am or not!! But I don't have the insurance or the money to go to the doctor. What should we do?
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How Do I Tell Them To Back Down?
Taylor Hale wrote... Hi. I'm almost 15, and there's this guy that I really like, and he's my best friend, but I also know that he likes me too. I don't have a problem with us not going out, but our friends do. It just gets kind of annoying. How do I tell them to back down?
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He Verbally Abuses Me
Question Asked: here is a question...wat if u r in a relationship and u verbelly abuse almost every time...and he cheat...and everytime u break withh him he give u the sweet word u take him bak...everytime...so wat is that..
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My Mom Won't Talk About Dating
Anonymous Question Posted: Im 13 yrs old and my mom won't even tell me about anything like dating. She also wont let me walk around a store with my friends by ourselves! I want to go out with this boy at school and i even know where he lives but if i even mention i know where he lives my mom will kill me! then she'll give like an hr long speech on why i cant date or have guy friends untill im like 20...im so pissed!!!
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Baby Mama Drama
Anonymous: I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both Christians and recently made the decision to be obedient to God and to keep in His word daily. I love the fact that we are growing together and encouraging each other when times get tough.
My boyfriend has a three year old son that we pick-up on the weekends and I love him to death. When it’s us three we have a great time together. The only thing is I feel that my boyfriend is trying to keep me away from his son’s family. He doesn’t like to tell me when he talks to his son’s mother and seems to make calls over there secretly to keep me from finding out.
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My Husband Looks Like He's Pregnant
Anonymous Asked... How do I tell my husband that he needs to work out? He looks like he has been pregnant with twins for 2 years now? I've tried to tell him..but He thinks he's hot!!
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My Friends Want to Commit Suicide. HELP!
A Worried Friend Wrote: OK HERE IT GOES... YESTERDAY I WAS TALKING TO ONE OF MY FRIEDNS WHO IS A GUY AND HE IS 20... HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS THINKING ABOUT SUICIDE THEN LATER THAT NIGHT I WAS TALKING TO MY EX WHO IS MY AGE & HE SAID THAT HE WAS CLOSE TO COMMITTING SUICDE THIS WEEKEND BUT HIS COUSIN STOPPED HIM BUT HE WAS STILL THINKING ABOUT IT... I BEGGED BOTH OF THEM NOT TO BUT THEY BOTH SEEMED PRETTY SET ON DOING IT....
WHAT DO I DO?!?!
I DONT WANT TO LOSE 2 OF MY CLOSEST FRIENDS!!!!
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7th Grade Boy Problems & Pregnant at 12
Anonymous Question: At School in the 7th grade it's pretty tuff,I mean you are exposed to A LOT of things Like:My Friend was PREGNANT and she's only 12 she had an abortion,and now she's engaged to the father of the baby!
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I'm 10 and Like This Boy
Question: I just wanted to tell you something and maybe you could answer it. So I am talking to this boy he is in 5th grade like me and he is 11 years old and I am 10 so I like hem in all but hers a problem because all my friends told hem I like hem....
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Flirting Friends
MySpace Conversation: We hang out sometimes but when I around him I feel like he flirty with me kind of but not too flirty like most guys do with a female. We are good friends. Idk..what that means or it just a guy thing to all females?
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Everything Happens For A Reasons
MySpacer Writes: I have believed everything happens for a reason my whole life... if I wouldn't have went with my ex to the lake for his birthday and ended up being ditched by him, I would never have meet the guy I like right now. But why did I meet him if all we do now is argue??? I think it's me that starts it. I want to call him and apologize for the way I have been acting but I don't know what to say to let him know that I really do like him and that I am really sorry for everything.
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He Tattooed Her Name After One Month
More Help says.. It’s only been a month and he got a tattoo with her name and I’m so upset with that. I have been crying and crying all day. Like I was with him for 3 years he never got a tattoo with my name. It makes me feel like crap, like I was never doing anything right. I don’t know what to do with my self???
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He Cheats But Keeps Sayin All the Right Stuff
MySpacer Wrote: hey its me again well im going through a crazy brake up and i kno that i shouldnt go back with him because he cheated on me 2many times its just hard not to u kno i dont kno wat to do i love so much we have a kid 2getther but i dont want to go back to him he keeps sayin all the right stuff to me and i think im fallin 4it
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Praise Report! 5 Saved!!
A Friend Writes... Love the page!!!! So neway I wanted to message you guys and let u know how good God is... tonight was the first night of our tent revival... we had over 200 there and 5 saved... also my boyfriend was saved a couple weeks ago and got baptised last Sunday... U can't tell me God doesn't answer prayers!!!!I LOVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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We've Been Through So Much
A friend writes.. Please keep my family in your prayers. My husband is overseas and we have been through so much since he has been in the navy and I pray everyday for our marriage to work. Thank u again for the add and the prayers.
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This Is Not the Life I Want for Myself
A Friend Wrote: Going through some crazy drama and don't even know why. Everything is too much for me that I'm gonna start going to church every sunday starting this sunday coming up, I come to realize that I need god in my life and just need to start my life fresh. This is not the life I want for myself... Been doing a lot of thinking to myself and need to just do and stop thinking so much about it but at times I just feel like given up on myself...
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It Hurts That He Has Another Girlfriend
Hey Ladies A little Advice Please
Hey..I want to know why does it hurt to see your ex-boyfriend with another female or when he talks about her. I cried for about 2 hours yesterday cause he has a new girlfriend and it really bothers me. So much that I said off the wall stuff to him, even though he was doing me wrong. He was cheating on me and starting alot of drama. I still have love for him. Why is that? How can I get over him? Cause I feel like it can hurt my future relationships with the next guy?
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I'm 13 and I Want To Date
Question: im 13 and my mom didnt tell me anything about dating. i wanna date but what if he wants to come over? if i tell him that my mom wont let me have boys over he might break up with me
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How Can I Tell My Parents About My Boyfriend? Part 2
Girl’s Reply: thanx for the advice but i dont if u understand..i like him alot i think i might even love him and i dont DO NOT want to break his heart and i no he feels the same.its not like my grades r slippping im just as focused on school as i waz when i didnt have a boyfriend.ok ill admite that my conshents is bother me about it and i hate keepng stuff from me parents because it always comes out ugly.how do i NOT break the boys heart and tell my parents its impossible =[ =[
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How Can I Tell My Parents About My Boyfriend?
Anonymous Wrote: i really need ur help i have a big situation...i think im falling in love with a boy =] =[ the problem is im not allowed 2 have any boy friends but i made an exception for him. i just wish my parents would no that im wise enough to have and handle a boyfriend i really want to tell them and my boyfriend want me to 2 but i just cant so that. Its like when i talk to them about boy or even try to they dont listen to every thing. all they listen to is the boyfriend part i say… they may not no that but i no...plezz help what do i do!!
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I Like Him but He's Not Christian
A MySpace Friend Wrote: havent forgotten God, i haven't, but I don't feel Him like before. And my soul yearns for him....but my flesh desires worldy things. Though i haven't done anything wrong with this guy...and everything feels right when i'm with him when i go to church or talk to my pastor for some reason i feel ashamed....i feel dirty and i dont know why. I know i'm wrong,i know that God has promised great things for me, i just feel like i cant let go of this guy because he's good to me and doesn't deserve me to break his heart bc i know what that feels like......so i write to you today, asking you for help...asking you for prayer.
I dont know what to do...?????
Can you help me?
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Everyone Says I Shouldn't Be Friends
Anonymous said...
I have this friend that everyone says i shouldnt be friends with cuz she makes my attitude alot worse nd i sneek around and lie to my parents all the time cuz her.She also tells me what to do and if i dont she yells at me.Should i stop being her friend??
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What Do You Do When You're Talked About? Pt2
Anonymous Replies.. nahh i think im just gunna beat her up :]
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What Do You Do When You're Talked About?
Anonymous Asks.. What do you do when a someone goes and tells someone something that she wasnt supposed to.
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The Case of the Missing Ring
Situation: im living with my fiance and his parents. they drink vodka and get drunk every night. his dad doesnt bother me at all. he is awsome. his mom i cant stand. last night when i was in the shower my engagement ring went missing.
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I Want To Be Saved
MySpace Friend asks: How did you become saved? I always have wanted to be saved, but there's this thing that I've been doing and its hard me to stop.
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After School Started She Changed
Anonymous asks.. hey well i have a friend.every time she iz around me she acts like goofy old me.but when she goes around othes girls she tries 2 act all cool.i noe that sometimes she get a little jealous of me because most of the boys like but that doesnt really matter.but any ways.this past summer we were always 2gether,but after school started she just changed.in the hall ways she doesnt say anything 2 me.but when were at my house she could talk up a storm.i just want a friend that iz a friend around me AND around other people.
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I'm A Witch Cuz That's What I Am
Response: answer me something y did u request to be my friend? cuz u think i need help or be cuz u think u used to be like me............n im not spiritually looking for crap.............n im not a witch cuz i think that a spell will fill in the VOID in my heart. that is who i am.............and do yourself a favor stop acting like your doing Gods work. as if u can make a difference in someones life...............cuz some may take it worse then i did..............oh and another thing if i wanted your help i would of looked for it or asked for it................peace
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Not Even God Can Help Me Pt2
Her Response: no disrespect but if god has a plan for me he needs to get down here n tell me wut it is cuz i dont see it............n quite frankly i have more lives then a damn cat n these days i wish i hadn’t
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Not Even God Can Help Me
Statement: well trust me im far from help not even god cant help me
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How Do You Figure You Used To Be Me?
Anonymous Wrote: not to be a smart but how do u figure u used to be like me.............im curious
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Together for 2 Yrs and I Can't Trust Him
QUESTION:WELL THERE IS THIS I BEEN WITH FOR 2 YEARS ON AND OFF AND WE FINALLY ARE TRYIN TO GIVE A CHANCE FOR THE LAST TIME BUT HE DOESN'T TRUST ME AND I DNT TRUST HIM. WHEN WE TRY TO HOOK UP THERE'S ALWAYS A EXCUSE ABOUT HIM BEING BUSY. I'VE SEEN HIM TALK TO GIRLS AND GIVE HIS NUMBER OR TAKIN NUMBERS FROM THEM AND I'M GOIN THRU A LIL DOWN FALL BUT WHEN I CAN ALWAYS HELP HIM WHEN I CAN BUT I CAN'T SAY I CAN RELY ON HIM SO WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO
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My Friends & Family Don't Like Him
Anonymous Asks.. My ex-boyfriend wants to get back with me, but a couple of friends and siblings don't like him AT ALL!! What do I do? I kind of do want to get back with him, but I don't want to cause more drama for him.
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Respecting My Decision
Question:
I'm celibate now and I have been for like 4 months (doin my BEST)...is it possible to find a man who will wait til marriage AND remain faithful??? Even a preacher will cheat on their spouse!
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We Broke Up But Now He's All Alone
Anonymous said...
My boyfriend and I just recently broke up and I’m taking it pretty hard. Our all too frequent arguments got the best of our relationship which ended in a terrible way… What really is hurting me is that I know my ex doesn’t have anyone right now. He has no family and no one to encourage his walk with the Lord. I feel that I want to stay in his life to encourage him to seek the Lord but I also think that will make the break-up harder on the both of us and possibly bring us back together when we might need some time apart to develop a closer relationship with the Lord. What should I do?
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Internet Love
Anonymous Asks:
Hey. Well Im having a difficult time right now. Im not really sure what to do. I had an internet boyfriend from England, and I have never met him, but we did the whole web cam, and talked on the phone a few times. I managed to fall pretty hard for him. We argued a lot of the time, but we still cared about each other enough to use the word love. I was upset with him, and he decided he would end it for me, because I refused to because I still loved him. Anyway I went to see a friend of mine for the first time,and he only lives a couple hours from me. I really started liking this guy…
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He Liked My Friend And Now He Wants To Date ME
Anonymous Asks: Thats really cool that you do that...well I need some advice then. What do you think about this meesage and mind you that I barely know this guy. It was my friends long lost friend , they just meet up back tohether a couple months ago and he was all like all about her and then saw me and wants me to be his girlfriend. I don't trust it as far as I can throw it but heres the message. Write me back so I can see what your opinon is.
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My Friend Doesn't Understand
Anonymous Wrote:
My best friend and I have known each other for over 10 years; we know each other very well… My boyfriend and I don't drink or go to clubs and I feel she was upset about that. I feel that she is really demanding of my time and doesn’t understand that I don’t want to fall back into the world. I don't know if it's me being a bad friend or if it’s something on her part. She is catholic but doesn’t go to church or anything, I am Christian and want a closer relationship with the Lord. What should I do?
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He Said I'm Ugly
QUESTION: ok in 6th grade i met this boy... mi first boyfriend who treated me bad... ithought... he never wanted to be around me wit his friends n called me names but i relly like him.. he was my first kiss n so i thought at the time love.... we went on n off datin about a year... n then he just dumped me... i was heartbroken.... for nights i cried myself tosleep he hurt me that bad... i thought that this was the way all relationships are... i have garded my heart ever since... then next year this guy liked me so i let him do what he pleased.. i kissed him when he wanted me to n i let him fill me up... i was hurt n confused...
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Teenage Mom
ANONYMOUS WROTE: … I feel If someone was there for me I wouldnt have done half the stuff I done. I used to be into drugs, drinking, and used to have some one night stands and really didnt respect myself. I dropped out of school at young age I had a baby when I was 18. I always hung around the wrong people …
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Insecurities & Low Self Esteem Causing Problems
Anonymous said...
I’m in my mid twenties and have been with my boyfriend a little over two years. When we get along we get along so great! But when we fight (argue) it’s out of control. We both tend to say the most hurtful things to each other and within a day or less we’re over it and happy again. It seems at times that my insecurities and low self-esteem are the cause of our problems but I’ve been this way for so long that I don’t know how to change. I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me but I’m afraid that my insecurities are getting in the way of us being happy together.
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My Friend Is Hitting On Me
Anonymous wrote... im confused about my sexuality.... i believe in Jesus christ i am a good christian girl n i go 2 church im a virgin but mi bestfriend is coming onto me n fillin my head with sexual unpure thoughts n shes already tried to kiss me n... i dont no wut to do....
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He Says I'm His Only Girl
Anonymous asks.. I need some advice about my boyfriend. Well we haven't been together for that long its been about 2 months now. Anyways my question is is he cheating on me? See right now we are having a long distance relationship. … she actually kissed him and was on him...
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He Parties All Week & Has No Job
QUESTION:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3months but we have known each other since elementery school. I just broke up with him last week because he goes out 7days a week and gets drunk, he dont have a job but he goes out every night. I told him from the begining that i didnt like that he goes out every night, that he should get up and look for a job,
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How Do I Know If My Man Is Cheating?
J Wrote: Hi my name is J i have a boyfriend that loves me to death but i keep getting messages from other girls that are telling me that they are dating him.i want to believe him but i have no idea if he is telling me the truth or not what should i do???
How do I know if my man is cheating??
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He Wants Me To Become A Polygamist Pt2
Girl’s Reply: thank you so much i will do my best to leave and find another place to stay and if you will please keep me in your prayers
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He Wants Me To Become A Polygamist Pt1
QUESTION: k heres the thing i have a boyfriend and he wants me to be polygamist and i really dont believe in that and he doesn’t want to be with me if i am not that and i love him and if i do leave him i have no place to go i will be homeless what do i do i am so confused do i stay with him so i can have a place to stay or tell him that i do not believe that and move on and just be homeless please help me
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He’s Dating 2 of My Friends
Helplessindahill wrote... Ok so i have this friend,best friend, and she was talking to me on the phone. We were planning to go see Batman this friday. Ne way she says "u kno i GO OUT with _______ now?" I was kind of bothered by this because this guy also goes out with my god sister.(my friend doesn't know about her) I had just seen them 2gether the day b4. B4 he got saved and started playing drums and keyboard for my church, he was known to be a player...my question is should i say ne thing to ne body or should i jus sit back and watch him play my god sister like that.
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Love Triangle
ANONYMOUS WROTE: (names are changed for anonymity) … We write each other and he is worried that I love another guy... I do... I think. I told Darren that I love someone else and that didn’t go to well.. I think I messed that up and I really like him.... but I think he will stick with me and work this out. But there’s still Andrew... he keeps calling. He wants me to go out to his farm with him during harvest to keep him company... and I can’t say no.... I’m lost... fer reals
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Answer – Almost Ready to Give Up… Help!
ANSWER:
Wow..it's amazing how I feel your pain...
I knew the day would come that I would no longer be able to hide behind my short testimony. I knew that were girls out there just like me that had been raped or molested, but I feared being completely vunerable. So I chose not to share it. In fact until I decided to start this ministry I had not even told my husband of 10 years. I know what it feels like to be taken advantage of.
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Question – Almost Ready to Give Up… Help!
Anonymous says.. I come to you, strangers, because I have nowhere else to go.
I have read all of your testimonies, and think its amazing what God has done in all of your lives. I can't even pretend I have lived through any of what you guys have.
But at the same time, I'm not sure you can identify with what I have lived.
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Did I Do the Right Thing?
Question.. Ok..i'll try to shorten up the story. Me and Chris dated twice before we got together the 3rd time. We just recently broke up like 3 days ago and dated a lil over 11 months. He would bring up my ex-boyfriends and try to get me not hanging out with my best friend. It took him 5 months to stop talking about one of my ex-boyfriends. During Christmas he was just an a**hole..to be blunt.
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt4
Response.. Well I feel as I am doing nothing wrong and that God may understand and still love me for who I am no matter who else I may love. If you can't be with the one you love why live at all?
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt3
Response.. I get that but I am who I am and I am a good person. I serve the Lord at all times and I never look back. I love the Lord just as much as I love myself. Why is it soooo wrong for me to love the same sex, let alone love my girl. She means the world to m. She is everything I could ever want and a person. So why should I change and let her think that she is not what I want and she is not who I love. I have a big heart and there is room for the Lord and my girl.
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt2
Response.. Ok. I see and thanks. I just needed to ask because I do go to church and my church family has taken me for who I am. I am a kind and loving person who is open to everyone around me. I don't hide things but I just wantd to know that there are people who can take me for who I am. Not seeing me as just another gay person who has turned against the Lord because it's not like that at all.
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I Don't Think I Am Wrong Pt1
Question.. I am gay and I was wondering would that affect the way you look at me? Don't lie because God doesn't like ugly!
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Tiny Voice Telling Me to Let Go
Anonymous said...
I need advice… I wish he was more concerned about his career and his walk with God than tattoos and his car. I love him so much but I want to be with someone that loves God with all his heart. The fights we have tell me that maybe God doesn’t want us together but then again we have so much fun together. Should I stay in this relationship and trust God will help work things out or should I trust the tiny voice in my head telling me to just let go and move on?
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It’s So Hard to Forgive
Question:
… he took me out on our first date since our break up, and we have been inseparable since then. he tells me that im his soul mate and he is sorry from the bottom of his heart. and swears he will never do it again! its hard to believe him but i love him. he is deploying in August and I'm scared for my life. I'm scared he is going to cheat again and i don't know what to think... can you help me?
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He’s Choosing Drugs Over Me Part 2
Continued from He’s Choosing Drugs Over Me Part 1
Response:
Thank you. But we always argue about it when we talk about it. I don't want to leave him I really don't. I have given him everything if you know what I mean!? i can't leave him. I don't have the strength to.
Answer:
It sounds like you are idolizing him. God should be your everything!
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He’s Choosing Drugs Over Me
Question:
Well I'm 20 years old and I'm in love with this guy name Cody. Well i used to be in drugs real bad and so i cleaned up and I'm going to school. Thats where I met him. Well I asked him to slow down on smoking weed and he has but I kinda want him to quit because if we have kids i don't want them around that. i don't want to leave him but I can't stand this because it puts me down. What do I do?
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My Heart Skipped A Beat
QUESTION: Hey do me a favor and go look at my profile at my latest blog. It's all about this guy I meet this weekend and I want to know what you think. Like am I falling way to fast for him or is it just a summer fling??? I really really like him though!
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Relationship In Jeopardy
Anonymous ask.. My fiance is in the army and he says he loves me but the other night he invited a girl over to his place to watch movies alone on his bed. I found out about it and i asked him and he said that he planned it to hurt me but he loves me and doesn't want it to end. Is our relationship in jeopardy? I love him to death and I told him. I have been honest with him I just haven't been open with my feelings because he keeps lying to me. What do I do? Please can you help me?
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My Lustful Desires
QUESTION: im 18 n im not a virgin ne more n sometimes i get these overwhelming desires to just hook up w/ ppl i start gettin to kno.....is that normal??
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I Can't Trust Him. I Am Tired Of His Lies.
Anonymous said...Okay, so my question is:What should I do about a boyfriend that I question all of the time? He's a sweet guy, but he lies to me all of the time. We've been together for 3 years and he is the one who got me into Church, thankfully, but when we met he used to constantly tell mewhat I should and should not be doing in terms of how God sees thing. This is a good thing, but then I've caught him lying to me on several occasions about other girls. I don't believe he has physically cheated, but I have caught him red handed lying to me about sending flirtatious messages over myspace to girls that he knows. He's a sweet guy, a gentlemen, but every time he apologizes and says it won't happen it happens again and now I constantly second guess everything he tells me. He's also a youth leader and keeps this information about his lies hidden from his own friends and family.
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He Wants To Hang But He Doesn't Want To Commit. Help!
Anonymous asks..I have a guy that I like and am interested in. We both have past of being hurt and are afraid but I am trying to follow Gods will. This guy wants to take his time and I totally respect that but at the same time he is scared with being honest with his feelings and it is very hard to not get tempted in this situation.He likes to hang out with me and want to see what happens but does not want to make a commitment. HELP!!!
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My Cheating Ex
Confused Asked: I'VE BEEN WITH MY EX FOR THREE YEARS ON AND OFF AND WE FINALLY BROKE UP CUZ HE WAS CHEATING ON ME. OUT THE BLUE HE CALLS AND SAID THAT HE WANTS TO TAKE ME OUT FOR HIS BIRTHDAY IT DOESN'T SOUND RIGHT WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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I Need Help With My Brother
Hey Girls,
I have a brother that goes through a lot and I try to talk to him about God but it seems like he doesn't want to listen. Sometimes he feels like he wants to commit suicide but he doesn't. I do care about him. What should I do? I think he's gotten therapy. I just wanna know should I continue to talk to him about God and pray for him? He's not on drugs he's only 15. Thanks for your answer.
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Getting Married To Another Girl Pt 2
Continued from Getting Married To Another Girl..What Do You Think?
Anonymous responds..That's what I fell for.
Answer..That's exactly what it is a fall..you have fallen for the lies of the enemy. He has been planning since the day you were born to kill you, steal from you, and destroy you. Listen to what Jesus said,"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
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I Don't Want To Wake Up Any More!
No More Asked..What do I do I wish that I don’t wake up in the mornings no more? Everything is going wrong.
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My Friend Becomes My Boyfriend-Everything's A Mess
Anonymous asks..Wow... Great timing on the request! Ok well.. me and my best guy friend have been friends for two and a half years. Well not too long ago we tried dating. Along with alot ALOT of complications we ended up breaking up and we fought alot after it. He has told me he never wanted to see me and didnt want to play this game with me. But yet after I leave town to think and when I come back he acts like nothing ever happened!!! Things got really bad on and off... now I just don't feel the same about him. But he still messages me and tells me he loves me. I know I love him too, but I'm not in love with him. You know what I mean? I no thats really confusing but any help???
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Getting Married To Another Girl..What Do You Think?
Anonymous asked..So I'm with a female and I love her. We have been going out for three months and we are getting married and getting our own place. What do you think?
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What Does The Bible Say About Clubbing?
Lil Bro asks..What does the bible say about partying and clubbing?
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He's Back. What Do I Do?
Strongatheart Asked... Last summer I went out with this guy and we were close but then he broke it off in a really mean way. Now I have a boyfriend, who I'm not so sure about and I saw that guy the other night and we had fun. It was like nothing had ever happened and he even apologized. Now I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know what to think. I'm very confused about everything. Have any advice on the situation?
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In A Relationship For 3 Years, But I Like Girls
B asks..Let me tell you my situation. I have a boy friend that I have been with for 3years and I love him so much. We have a baby girl and she is my world, but I also like girls. I mean I really do a whole lot and I dont know what to do?
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Is He The Guy For Me?
JESUSGIRL18 asks.. I just wanted to talk about waiting for the right guy. How do you know a guy is right for you? There's this guy in Africa he said he was Christian and he gave his life to Christ but my mom says he just saying that. So do I keep on waiting for the right guy that God has for me or do I just talk to the Africa guy that is a Christian?
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My Smoking Friend
Anonymous Asks... Hey, I just want to know what do I do when a really close friend is smoking? He told me that he wasn't like that. Should I still be his friend?Read Complete Posting
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My BFF's Hate Each Other
Anonymous said... I have 2 really good best friends that hate each other. It's hard 2 just hang out with 1 and not the other. They always get mad at me. I just don't know what 2 do please help me.Read Complete Posting
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I'm 13. My Mom Won't Let Me Have A Boyfriend
Anonymous said.. I am thirteen years old. A boy in school asked me to be his girlfriend. My mom says that I am not allowed to start dating or have a boyfriend until I am sixteen. I feel like I am mature enough to have a boyfriend now. I don’t understand why I have to wait. I feel like she is being over protective and treating me like a baby. I don’t want to disobey her or God but I really like this boy. What should I do?Read Complete Posting
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Don't Be Afraid To Be Different
Q: "I’m a Christian girl and everyone picks on me at school because I won't go to the parties and hang out and drink with them. They are always picking on me. I am getting so tired of being so different. Sometimes I just want to give up."Read Complete Posting
