J Wrote: Hi my name is J i have a boyfriend that loves me to death but i keep getting messages from other girls that are telling me that they are dating him.i want to believe him but i have no idea if he is telling me the truth or not what should i do???
How do I know if my man is cheating??
Answer: This is a hard question to answer. It’s hard to base decisions on gossip but your doubts are obviously there.
I don’t know what the girls’ motives are in telling you that they’re dating your boyfriend; only he and they know the truth. When I was with my ex, I dealt with the same situation. I had the same doubt, the same questions but I also had a gut feeling that something was happening. Some signs that raised my suspicions were his cell phone always on vibrate, late night calls, girls calling, excuses to be out late and wondering eyes.
I think you should pray about it and ask God that you not be deceived. God guides us and leads us into truth, especially when we ask him to reveal the truth to us. Do not ignore the signs. If you ask God, expect to receive an answer:
James 1:5-8
“If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.”
Whatever is in the dark will come to the light. Don’t make any rash decisions. Wait for the truth to be revealed.
Sincerely,
Saved by Faith
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