Thursday, October 16, 2008

Pt 3 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her


(Continued from posting 'I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her')

Anonymous Responds..

Well he says he made a big mistake. My family don't want me taking him back. If I do I get kicked out of my home. I feel bad b.c what if he is sincerely sorry? I told him to prove himself and his love and he doesn't know how. I said well apolizing to them is a start. He told me I prayed for the first time in a long time to get you back. I was like ya did cuz I pray all the time and so ....yeah but I don't know if he still trys to get with her too ya know :) It's hard to tell so...I know I am in love with the guy but its been hard cuz my family is all GRAAA at me b.c they said I would be stupid to take him back so for now me and him are just waiting it out and seeing how things go...he still wants to get back but I think he needs to show how much he loves me and not just say it WHAT DO YOU THINK!? thanks

Trophy of Grace Responds

I know that this is all so confusing to you but you have to leave this guy be. You prayed about this and God has showed you in more ways than one now that this is not for you. Do not reject what God is telling you. When God warns us and tries to lead us down a different path than the one we want we should not despise His leading. Do what He tells you. He knows what's best. He will never lead you wrong. Trust Him and lay down your will for your life and ask Him for His will.

I've told you how I feel. I agree with your family. Leave him alone. I think that you are his rebound. He may just not want to be alone because he is used to being with someone. He was with this girl for 5 years. That's a long time. You may be his fall back. Sometimes people think that if they get involved with someone else that it will help them get over their ex.

Ask God to give you strength and courage to accept His will and to move on with your life. Ask him to take away the lust (cause you may not know it now, but it's not love) that you have for him.

I will still be praying for you.
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Anonymous responds..

well thanks you ...it is hard for me to move on because i always have a tendancy to rebound everytime....thats not good either but i think i do love him but i did have lust for him too but thanks you for praying i am glad your here for me too :)

Trophy of Grace says..

You are welcome. We are here for you no matter you chose to do. We are not here to pass judgement or to critize you. Jesus has put a love in hearts to young women. We have desire to help try to guide and lead you down the right path.

God bless you young sister,

xoxo's Trophy of Grace

Anonymous says..

well thanks i will continue to talk to ya'll i am so lucky i came across this

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- I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
- Pt2 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her
- Pt4 Cont. from I'm Worried He Still Has Feelings For Her