Anonymous asks.. I need some advice about my boyfriend. Well we haven't been together for that long its been about 2 months now. Anyways my question is is he cheating on me? See right now we are having a long distance relationship. Temporarily I am in Okinawa Japan staying with my aunt. He is in Georgia right now and is moving to Jersy today. But what makes me think that he is cheating on me is because about 2 weeks ago he told me that this girl was trying to get with him and trying to get him to cheat on me. But he left out a lot of information..like she pushed him on the bed and felt on him and stuff. He didn't tell me that until later on. I said it was ok because he didnt do anything it was all her. But I wanted to see anyways. I wanted to confront her about it and he wouldn't let me. Then recently he told me when he was his friends this girl was trying to do the same thing. But she actually kissed him and was on him. He said his friend pulled her off but I'm not sure if I should believe him this time. I'm not quite sure what I should do cause he says he's not cheating and I'm the only girl. Should I let him go or should I trust him and see what happens next? Thanks..
Answer..Long distance relationships are hard enough. Then on top of it you're not sure if you can trust him. That's tough..
This young man seems a little shady. You have two different girls involved in similar situations with him, but he claims to be innocent. It would be hard for me to trust him too.
Trust is a very important part of any relationship. If you do not have trust and confidence in the person that you are in love with how can you truly give them your heart?
My suggestion would be to let this young man go. Take time to focus on your self for awhile before you start looking for someone else. If you want to find the man for you, stop looking. Start seeking first to know God. (Matthew 6:33)Build a relationship with Jesus Christ first and you will see that He will give you the desires of your heart. Don't worry about tomorrow, learn to take one day at time.
God has a wonderful plan for your life if you will only surrender your will to His. (Jeremiah 29:11-13)You could never imagine the number of times daily that God has good thoughts toward you and about your life. They are unable to be numbered, like the grains of sand.(Psalm 139:17-18) Let him comfort you and heal you from the hurt of this relationship and allow him to bring the man He has for you, to you. His ways are so much better than ours.
I will be praying for you..
Kindly,
Trophy of Grace
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