Question Asked: here is a question...wat if u r in a relationship and u verbelly abuse almost every time...and he cheat...and everytime u break withh him he give u the sweet word u take him bak...everytime...so wat is that..
Response: Honey you said it yourself. It's abuse. Don't allow anyone to abuse you. You are a beautiful treasure that is to be loved and cherished. Our God desires for you to be cared for, adored, and treated gently. You don't need to allow yourself to be in are relationship where the person is tearing you apart with their words and actions. The more you listen to the abuse the more you will begin to believe that you are what they say you are. You are not those negative things. You are God's wonderful creation.
Psalms 9:9 The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble.
The Lord wants to deliver you from this situation. He has something better for you. He has good plans for you. My favorite scripture is Jeremiah 29:11-13 which says "For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me."
I share it with people so often because I have found freedom and hope in knowing that God has good plans for my life. So I chose not to settle for second best. I no longer allow myself to be a victim to others or life's circumstances. No matter what happens or who comes against me I know that I can seek God and He will help me. My faith in Christ has made me victorious.
He wants to do the same thing in your life. He wants you to be strong and confident in Him. His desire is to see you rise above any drama and persecution. If you will trust Him with your life and your circumstance he will give you wisdom and discernment to make better decisions.
Get away from this abuser. Draw close to God and allow Him to heal you from this pain and betrayal. He will lift you up and get you back on the right path if you will allow Him to.
Psalm 40:1-3
1 I waited patiently for the Lord to help me,
and he turned to me and heard my cry.
2 He lifted me out of the pit of despair,
out of the mud and the mire.
He set my feet on solid ground
and steadied me as I walked along.
3 He has given me a new song to sing,
a hymn of praise to our God.
Many will see what he has done and be amazed.
They will put their trust in the Lord.
I will be praying for you.
Sincerely,
Trophy of Grace
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