Friday, September 5, 2008

Everyone Says I Shouldn't Be Friends With Her


Anonymous said...
I have this friend that everyone says i shouldnt be friends with cuz she makes my attitude alot worse nd i sneek around and lie to my parents all the time cuz her.She also tells me what to do and if i dont she yells at me.Should i stop being her friend??

Answer..It sounds like this girl is not a good influence on you. The people closest to you are telling you to leave this girl alone because they see that she is a negative influence on you. They do not want to see you hanging out with the wrong people.

Besides that you see for yourself that she is leading you down the wrong path. She is encouraging you to lie to your parents and sneak around..plus she yells at you when you don't do what she tells you. That's horrible. That does not sound like any friend to me. She sounds like a bully.

I would say get away from her. Stop hanging with this girl. You are in great danger..She is teaching you or influencing you to dishonor your parents. I wonder what else she may be trying to get you to do?

God has commanded us to honor our father and mother. It is the fifth commandment in the bible. “Honor your father and mother. Then you will live a long, full life in the land the Lord your God is giving you." (Exodus 20:12)

Look at these other scriptures...

Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. “Honor your father and mother.” this is the first commandment with a promise: (Ephesians 6:1-2)

Children, always obey your parents, for this pleases the Lord. (Colossians 3:20)

Cut this friend lose and if you are not already, start praying for this young lady to change her ways before she finds herself in serious trouble.

For the future I strongly recommend that you choose your friends more wisely. Proverbs 13:20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.

You both will be in my prayers.

Trophy of Grace

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