Anonymous said...
Okay, so my question is:
What should I do about a boyfriend that I question all of the time? He's a sweet guy, but he lies to me all of the time. We've been together for 3 years and he is the one who got me into Church, thankfully, but when we met he used to constantly tell me
what I should and should not be doing in terms of how God sees thing. This is a good thing, but then I've caught him lying to me on several occasions about other girls. I don't believe he has physically cheated, but I have caught him red handed lying to me about sending flirtatious messages over myspace to girls that he knows. He's a sweet guy, a gentlemen, but every time he apologizes and says it won't happen it happens again and now I constantly second guess everything he tells me. He's also a youth leader and keeps this information about his lies hidden from his own friends and family.
Answer:
Not everybody that says they are a Christian is a Christian. If he is a man of God he would be living his life in a way that is pleasing to God. Maybe your boyfriend has served his purpose, by bringing you to church to find God.
If your boyfriend is lying to you, you should reconsider your relationship. Allow God to place in your life a man that’s going to love God first. Because of his relationship with God he will love and honor you. It sounds like you have some trust issues with him and that’s not your fault. Don’t blame yourself for questioning him. Its natural you feel that way. He has abused your trust.
Honestly, I think you should just forgive your boyfriend and move on. Allow God to place the man in your life that He wants for you in His timing. Trust him. He has this all planned out.
(1 Corinthians 13:4)
With love,
Daughter of Destiny
